"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ranting..fun.

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So I've been talking to this girl lately. I'd say shes a HB8[her face, lol, reminds me of a mouse. others have agreed on this lol] but I'm not tryin to mack it really since one fom my friends messed with her in the past.
Well since I'm DJ i guess, me not trying only brought her trying to attract me even more. W/e i thought: shes hott, but no, just no. Shes got some baggage, along with the friend thing. not a good idea.
Convo 2 nights ago:
me: So what're u thinkin about?
her: guys.
her: you know, hott, datable
her: bangable guys.
her: like you. you're all three ;-)
me: lol..thanks?

now whenever i get online n shes on, she usually jumps to IM me like instant. I'd probably hit it but then today shes like:
"I was chilling witrh Erick until 2:00 this morning." Thats special. Ericks just happens to be a student at GMU. I believe hes a freshman there, maybe a sophmore.
Let me get this straight: now college guys r goign for MY women?I'm a sophmore in highschool. I haven't even had to worry about Seniors going for my girls[the senior n junior class at my school is STACKED with hotties].
Wtf though?
Seriously...what does she see in him anyways? Hes a college guy going for highschoolers. ...that sickens me lol.
Lay off man. To me, when I'ma senior, fi I'mas big as some of them are...**** messing with even a sophmore girl would be liek ****ing a stickfigure whose half my height. Itd be weird.

How **** am I supposed to DJ[thoguh tis working for me i guess...but i'ms itll lossed] girls who can get College DJs[if you can call them that?]??

Has the male race gone completely mad? Are we the DJs the only ones who have a level fo decency?

Not sure where I was headed with this all..i jsut tohught i'd elt you all know what is going through my mind currently. This flu-induced thread might very-likely be useless..if so feel free to close.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Uhm, you say your not interested in this chick, then when she dates someone else you get all pissy.

I won't close it (even though i really wanna use my new mod powers ;))

But you do need to realize chicks are stupid, for some reason they like older guys, so don't blame him and don't blame her.

You said you don't even like this chick, so just get over it.
 

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Its not about this one chick, lol. Sorry I'm in a ****ty mood. Being stuck at home, sick as **** and being bored didn't do much for my mind today.

I don't care about this chick. I made this because this was just another story to add to the list of girls who fall for the older guys. When you're in college, if you can honestly tell me you'll even lay a finger on a highschool girl[not counting seniors and possibly juniors] then I think you just lost some of my respect.

But in the end I guess girls who fall for the older-guy thing simply for social status aren't really worth my thoughts or time.
Maybe I'm lying to myself, but its a good way to coverup being confused and pissed.
lol.
 

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I'd never go for anyone younger than a senior, thats just creepy.

But i'm bored so i'm gonna fix your spelling errors :p
 
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