"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Random women sparkin small conversation

Desra Lyons

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I've noticed when I'm out at the mall or the grocery store even in restaurants random girls will smile and make small talk with me..This just recently starting happening, and Me being a shy guy I'm having trouble adjusting. Are there any tips on taking advantage of these rare opportunities
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have the same problem. Been trying to adjust and I found NoFap and Meditating to help. Lemme explain. Meditation helps me to stay outta my head and more in the moment - helping with the flow of conversation and being calm and relaxed in most social situations. NoFap gives you the confidence to spit some game and squeeze a number outta them. Give it a shot, works for me
 

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In order to begin to feel comfortable with this, you should actively address strangers in your day-to-day and make small talk with them. Both men and women alike.

After a while you will not feel awkward when a woman smiles at you. The smile means "You look interesting and I'm available. I'm inviting you to talk to me."

After that, the energy flow has to come from you to her. This is the beginning of dominance, which is what she wants.

The golden key to social calibration is to make friendly small-talk with strangers.
 

Desra Lyons

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Have the same problem. Been trying to adjust and I found NoFap and Meditating to help. Lemme explain. Meditation helps me to stay outta my head and more in the moment - helping with the flow of conversation and being calm and relaxed in most social situations. NoFap gives you the confidence to spit some game and squeeze a number outta them. Give it a shot, works for me
Tried the getting out my head thing and it worked, I realized that my mind gets in the way and this was actually the biggest thing , thanks bro.
 

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In order to begin to feel comfortable with this, you should actively address strangers in your day-to-day and make small talk with them. Both men and women alike.

After a while you will not feel awkward when a woman smiles at you. The smile means "You look interesting and I'm available. I'm inviting you to talk to me."

After that, the energy flow has to come from you to her. This is the beginning of dominance, which is what she wants.

The golden key to social calibration is to make friendly small-talk with strangers.
Tru Tru , Its almost like I can feel that they want me to take the lead or steer the conversation in a certain direction I don't talk to strangers a lot , which is probably why I'm not comfortable or used to it , will try this out tho.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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