“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Desra Lyons

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I've noticed when I'm out at the mall or the grocery store even in restaurants random girls will smile and make small talk with me..This just recently starting happening, and Me being a shy guy I'm having trouble adjusting. Are there any tips on taking advantage of these rare opportunities
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Have the same problem. Been trying to adjust and I found NoFap and Meditating to help. Lemme explain. Meditation helps me to stay outta my head and more in the moment - helping with the flow of conversation and being calm and relaxed in most social situations. NoFap gives you the confidence to spit some game and squeeze a number outta them. Give it a shot, works for me
 

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In order to begin to feel comfortable with this, you should actively address strangers in your day-to-day and make small talk with them. Both men and women alike.

After a while you will not feel awkward when a woman smiles at you. The smile means "You look interesting and I'm available. I'm inviting you to talk to me."

After that, the energy flow has to come from you to her. This is the beginning of dominance, which is what she wants.

The golden key to social calibration is to make friendly small-talk with strangers.
 

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Have the same problem. Been trying to adjust and I found NoFap and Meditating to help. Lemme explain. Meditation helps me to stay outta my head and more in the moment - helping with the flow of conversation and being calm and relaxed in most social situations. NoFap gives you the confidence to spit some game and squeeze a number outta them. Give it a shot, works for me
Tried the getting out my head thing and it worked, I realized that my mind gets in the way and this was actually the biggest thing , thanks bro.
 

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In order to begin to feel comfortable with this, you should actively address strangers in your day-to-day and make small talk with them. Both men and women alike.

After a while you will not feel awkward when a woman smiles at you. The smile means "You look interesting and I'm available. I'm inviting you to talk to me."

After that, the energy flow has to come from you to her. This is the beginning of dominance, which is what she wants.

The golden key to social calibration is to make friendly small-talk with strangers.
Tru Tru , Its almost like I can feel that they want me to take the lead or steer the conversation in a certain direction I don't talk to strangers a lot , which is probably why I'm not comfortable or used to it , will try this out tho.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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