"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Random women messaging about weird acts on dating sites?

stovepipe

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I've had some weird experiences and know of some scams that people run on dating sites. Anyone ever have a random ghost account message them for weird sexual acts? Then I get this random women message me from another state who gives me her number and wants to start talking. First impression is red flags all over the place. Just curious what their real motives are here if anyone came across a situation like this before. Some chick wants to ram a dildo in my bum. She/he is very pushy in trying to meet up. Wont talk via email, sends me a FB account to see pics of her. I've been playing along with her/him for some laughs. POF definitely has the most crazies.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=152858549
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wifehunter

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Marriage made in heaven!:p
 

Dust 2 Dust

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.Phone number up front by someone who lives nowhere near you is a scam. Any woman who gives her number unsolicited in the 1st message is always a scam. You want things to move quickly, but NOT THAT QUICKLY. They eventually will give you a sob story about their dying mother who can't afford her medical bills or how they can't afford gas money to come see you in hopes you'll send them money. Don't fall for it.
 

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.Phone number up front by someone who lives nowhere near you is a scam. Any woman who gives her number unsolicited in the 1st message is always a scam. You want things to move quickly, but NOT THAT QUICKLY. They eventually will give you a sob story about their dying mother who can't afford her medical bills or how they can't afford gas money to come see you in hopes you'll send them money. Don't fall for it.
I'd never fall for any of those scam. Always wondered what the end game is for some of these situations. A buddy of mine had a friend who met a chick on POF that immediately gave him her #. Within days she got him on cam and they both were masturbating. During the session the girl put her cloths on and told the guy if he doesn't sent her $$$ she is going to send the video to everyone on his social media.

The one chick who was pushy to meet within 24hrs to lick my butt hole sent me a weird looking FB profile. I found the real girl to that profile and sent her all the info of the user stealing her info. Sad thing, with all the desperate guys out there, these scams work more often than not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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