Oh dear … all of a sudden we have an influx of moral crusaders telling us the principles of how to live. This is just a rant as to where I stand in this debate.
When I first joined this site, I wanted to get this girl. I started studying the respected posters, got my inner beliefs sorted and then worked on the techniques.
I started applying the techniques on this girl, but it didn’t work. I then made it a goal to get this particular area of my life sorted. I wanted an LTR and be happy.
A lot of people dream of finding their soul mate to be in an LTR. Someone who will fulfil their emotional desires. Someone to connect with, someone who understands their fears and share their joys. They see spending fun times with “THE ONE”, being married and live happily ever after.
I was like that once. But what I have discovered is that the above version of a “LTR” is Hollywood manufactured BULLSH!T designed to make people feel good. What I have realised is that most people want a LTR because they are lonely, they want to find someone who can make them happy and take them away from their sad pathetic lives.
Hollywood doesn’t tell you about the bills, the downside of life, the events that don’t have happy endings. Hollywood doesn’t tell you about your LTR having a bad day and taking it out on you, the drifting apart that stems from moving into different life stages, the lure of the forbidden fruit …
A LTR will not make you happy. It will not take away your loneliness. It will not make someone share your joys or understand your fears. YOU ALONE will make yourself happy. Only you can understand YOURSELF. A LTR will not validate you as a worthy person.
A DJ should not do XXX. A DJ should do YYY. BLAH BLAH BLAH. Do what you want. Don’t live by someone else’s rules. Make your own. It is your reality, and we are all GUESTS in your reality. If you don’t like us, get RID of us.
Those who say money is the root of all evil don’t have any. That is so true in many ways. There are posters here on this board who preaches that sleeping with many is bad. I doubt they have slept with many.
They don’t grasp the concept of the thrill of the chase. The excitement that comes from going out to a club, and not knowing what will happen. The intrigue of getting to know someone really quickly. The surprise when you take their clothes off for the first time.
Of course there are dangers involved. But what doesn’t? Sure a LTR will provide the safety and comfort, and sex with a familiar person rocks. On the other hand, if you haven’t experience everything, how can you cast judgements?
Let people experience for themselves and then let them make their own judgements.
Now I have that out of my system, lets get back to the point of why I am on this board, which is discussing HOW to get girl/(s) (or guys) and improve this particular area of your life. I will not cast judgements on morality. How you live your life (and deal with any associated consequences) is up to you.
When I first joined this site, I wanted to get this girl. I started studying the respected posters, got my inner beliefs sorted and then worked on the techniques.
I started applying the techniques on this girl, but it didn’t work. I then made it a goal to get this particular area of my life sorted. I wanted an LTR and be happy.
A lot of people dream of finding their soul mate to be in an LTR. Someone who will fulfil their emotional desires. Someone to connect with, someone who understands their fears and share their joys. They see spending fun times with “THE ONE”, being married and live happily ever after.
I was like that once. But what I have discovered is that the above version of a “LTR” is Hollywood manufactured BULLSH!T designed to make people feel good. What I have realised is that most people want a LTR because they are lonely, they want to find someone who can make them happy and take them away from their sad pathetic lives.
Hollywood doesn’t tell you about the bills, the downside of life, the events that don’t have happy endings. Hollywood doesn’t tell you about your LTR having a bad day and taking it out on you, the drifting apart that stems from moving into different life stages, the lure of the forbidden fruit …
A LTR will not make you happy. It will not take away your loneliness. It will not make someone share your joys or understand your fears. YOU ALONE will make yourself happy. Only you can understand YOURSELF. A LTR will not validate you as a worthy person.
A DJ should not do XXX. A DJ should do YYY. BLAH BLAH BLAH. Do what you want. Don’t live by someone else’s rules. Make your own. It is your reality, and we are all GUESTS in your reality. If you don’t like us, get RID of us.
Those who say money is the root of all evil don’t have any. That is so true in many ways. There are posters here on this board who preaches that sleeping with many is bad. I doubt they have slept with many.
They don’t grasp the concept of the thrill of the chase. The excitement that comes from going out to a club, and not knowing what will happen. The intrigue of getting to know someone really quickly. The surprise when you take their clothes off for the first time.
Of course there are dangers involved. But what doesn’t? Sure a LTR will provide the safety and comfort, and sex with a familiar person rocks. On the other hand, if you haven’t experience everything, how can you cast judgements?
Let people experience for themselves and then let them make their own judgements.
Now I have that out of my system, lets get back to the point of why I am on this board, which is discussing HOW to get girl/(s) (or guys) and improve this particular area of your life. I will not cast judgements on morality. How you live your life (and deal with any associated consequences) is up to you.