"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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udontknowme

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Ok, I'm a girl, I'm sorry.

There is this guy that I work with, we are both managers, and I like him. I think he might like me too, but he probably doesn't know if I like him because I'm bad at showing it. There are reasons why I think he might like me, but this is the most recent.

When we text each other, usually it has to do with work stuff, but lately its been about more casual stuff. The other night he texted to tell me how he finished what he had to do at work in only in hour, and then asked me what I had done that night. The I asked him what his plans were and he said he was just gunna go home and eat and watch tv, lol. (it was about 12am by then.)

Then at about 1am I got a random picture message of his sister's dog that he had showed me before, but for some reason decided to send it to me. I asked him if he was drunk, and he said just a little buzzed.

Then just the other night we texted back and forth for a little about some adult video store that I jokingly said I was gunna go check out. We had been talking about his friend just getting a job there and how he gets paid 9 bucks/hr to do nothing, and i was seriously thinking about getting and application. But anyway thats how we got on the topic, and he was like, "let me know what you buy" and he also mentioned they sold "clothing" too.

I'm curious as to what the guys think about this. Is this common banter you might have with a girl? What if you just consider her a friend? Would you joke around like this?

Sometimes he texts me just to ask what my plans are for the night, or what I did, but he hasnt asked me out.
I think I'm going to text him one day and just ask if he wants to go do something. If he just wants to be friends, thats cool too, but I would like to find out, lol.

Any thoughts are appreciated!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Soooooo, you texted about the porno shop - he knows you are hor-ny so if he didn't take you up on this signal then he is probably not interested - unless he is a shy bastard and a mamber of this site!!!!!! :rolleyes:
 

wunnaBsmooth

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go over to his house and jump his bones!
:rockon:
 

blinkwatt

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Do what you feel like doing. No rules apply in the end.

Bust his balls(I personally love it when women push me),tell him no more texting games,dates only.

You can say,"you know I dont prefer texting,how does hanging out sound?"
He should get it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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