"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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udontknowme

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Ok, I'm a girl, I'm sorry.

There is this guy that I work with, we are both managers, and I like him. I think he might like me too, but he probably doesn't know if I like him because I'm bad at showing it. There are reasons why I think he might like me, but this is the most recent.

When we text each other, usually it has to do with work stuff, but lately its been about more casual stuff. The other night he texted to tell me how he finished what he had to do at work in only in hour, and then asked me what I had done that night. The I asked him what his plans were and he said he was just gunna go home and eat and watch tv, lol. (it was about 12am by then.)

Then at about 1am I got a random picture message of his sister's dog that he had showed me before, but for some reason decided to send it to me. I asked him if he was drunk, and he said just a little buzzed.

Then just the other night we texted back and forth for a little about some adult video store that I jokingly said I was gunna go check out. We had been talking about his friend just getting a job there and how he gets paid 9 bucks/hr to do nothing, and i was seriously thinking about getting and application. But anyway thats how we got on the topic, and he was like, "let me know what you buy" and he also mentioned they sold "clothing" too.

I'm curious as to what the guys think about this. Is this common banter you might have with a girl? What if you just consider her a friend? Would you joke around like this?

Sometimes he texts me just to ask what my plans are for the night, or what I did, but he hasnt asked me out.
I think I'm going to text him one day and just ask if he wants to go do something. If he just wants to be friends, thats cool too, but I would like to find out, lol.

Any thoughts are appreciated!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Soooooo, you texted about the porno shop - he knows you are hor-ny so if he didn't take you up on this signal then he is probably not interested - unless he is a shy bastard and a mamber of this site!!!!!! :rolleyes:
 

wunnaBsmooth

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go over to his house and jump his bones!
:rockon:
 

blinkwatt

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Do what you feel like doing. No rules apply in the end.

Bust his balls(I personally love it when women push me),tell him no more texting games,dates only.

You can say,"you know I dont prefer texting,how does hanging out sound?"
He should get it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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