"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dukester

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I will have a post later tonight a/b how math class w/ that chick from my previous post went. my goal is to ask her to do something this weekend. hope i succeed.

n e way...

I was in a great mood for some reason, I dont know why, but I was. i was walking around campus happy and with a big smile on my face. i'm sure i looked ****y too, had the sunglasses on, you know, head held up high. the whole 9 yds.

I got so many looks from all the hot girls, and even the not hot's. i said hello to all the hot ones, and after i said that either they would look away, and smile shyly, or say high back, and smile shyly.

i just thought this was interesting, b/c this is all a new experience for me- being a DJ and all

still not up to doing full cold approaches and # drops, but i'm getting there slowly.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Psionic

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Yeah, it feels good to get a lot of looks around campus.

But have you ever noticed how the girls that checking you out one week seem to not be as attentive during later weeks? (particularly if you don't holla the first time around)
 

Grey Fox

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Well two reasons one, they don't like to look desperate so they seem to cool off. Also some other dude can come along and it changes their taste in guys, college girls get to be like that.

-Grey Fox
 

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Well, I go to a historically black college (Howard University - DC), and it seems that black women are of a slightly different ilk than the mainstream.

(Most of the girls that I have been with have been either caucasian or foreign, although I have had some success with black women.)

But I think that black women, in general, are more prone to blowing you off if you don't go out of your way to make contact. It's kind of that "you ain't nobody" type of vibe intended to revalidate their (usually more pronounced) egos.
 

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Originally posted by Dukester
I will have a post later tonight a/b how math class w/ that chick from my previous post went. my goal is to ask her to do something this weekend. hope i succeed.

n e way...

I was in a great mood for some reason, I dont know why, but I was. i was walking around campus happy and with a big smile on my face. i'm sure i looked ****y too, had the sunglasses on, you know, head held up high. the whole 9 yds.

I got so many looks from all the hot girls, and even the not hot's. i said hello to all the hot ones, and after i said that either they would look away, and smile shyly, or say high back, and smile shyly.

i just thought this was interesting, b/c this is all a new experience for me- being a DJ and all

still not up to doing full cold approaches and # drops, but i'm getting there slowly.
You got it man ;) It's all about confidence!
Girls can pick it up easily :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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