"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dukester

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I will have a post later tonight a/b how math class w/ that chick from my previous post went. my goal is to ask her to do something this weekend. hope i succeed.

n e way...

I was in a great mood for some reason, I dont know why, but I was. i was walking around campus happy and with a big smile on my face. i'm sure i looked ****y too, had the sunglasses on, you know, head held up high. the whole 9 yds.

I got so many looks from all the hot girls, and even the not hot's. i said hello to all the hot ones, and after i said that either they would look away, and smile shyly, or say high back, and smile shyly.

i just thought this was interesting, b/c this is all a new experience for me- being a DJ and all

still not up to doing full cold approaches and # drops, but i'm getting there slowly.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, it feels good to get a lot of looks around campus.

But have you ever noticed how the girls that checking you out one week seem to not be as attentive during later weeks? (particularly if you don't holla the first time around)
 

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Well two reasons one, they don't like to look desperate so they seem to cool off. Also some other dude can come along and it changes their taste in guys, college girls get to be like that.

-Grey Fox
 

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Well, I go to a historically black college (Howard University - DC), and it seems that black women are of a slightly different ilk than the mainstream.

(Most of the girls that I have been with have been either caucasian or foreign, although I have had some success with black women.)

But I think that black women, in general, are more prone to blowing you off if you don't go out of your way to make contact. It's kind of that "you ain't nobody" type of vibe intended to revalidate their (usually more pronounced) egos.
 

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Originally posted by Dukester
I will have a post later tonight a/b how math class w/ that chick from my previous post went. my goal is to ask her to do something this weekend. hope i succeed.

n e way...

I was in a great mood for some reason, I dont know why, but I was. i was walking around campus happy and with a big smile on my face. i'm sure i looked ****y too, had the sunglasses on, you know, head held up high. the whole 9 yds.

I got so many looks from all the hot girls, and even the not hot's. i said hello to all the hot ones, and after i said that either they would look away, and smile shyly, or say high back, and smile shyly.

i just thought this was interesting, b/c this is all a new experience for me- being a DJ and all

still not up to doing full cold approaches and # drops, but i'm getting there slowly.
You got it man ;) It's all about confidence!
Girls can pick it up easily :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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