Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Random girl on the street - Help Needed!!

BritBoy

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Well just caught me totally by surprised that a) she's early and b) she started talking to me first...daft I know....Not prepared!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ENIGMA16

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I bet she left early to run into you. It's probably salvageable. Ask for her number next time, you dunce! :)
 

BritBoy

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I know I'm a total idiot!! Haha cheers for still staying with me on this one though. Much appreciated
 

ThatMysteriousGuy

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BritBoy said:
Well just caught me totally by surprised that a) she's early and b) she started talking to me first...daft I know....Not prepared!!
It's alright, you're doing fine. Notice that nothing bad happened right?

Next time, get her number. She is very obviously interested or she wouldn't be asking you questions as well as her talking to you first.

britboy said:
I thought she might not be interested since she said no to the coffee.
Stop thinking so much...get outside of your head. She said no to coffee because of work. Don't attach extra meaning to stuff women say and stop assuming the worst.
 
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