"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Random girl on the street - Help Needed!!
- Thread starter BritBoy
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ThatMysteriousGuy
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It's alright, you're doing fine. Notice that nothing bad happened right?BritBoy said:
Next time, get her number. She is very obviously interested or she wouldn't be asking you questions as well as her talking to you first.
Stop thinking so much...get outside of your head. She said no to coffee because of work. Don't attach extra meaning to stuff women say and stop assuming the worst.britboy said: