a random girl added me on facebook. we have 28 mutual friends and she's a grade younger than me. (im a junior btw). she goes to the school i used to go to but i dont know who she is. i never seen or spoken to her but her profile looks 100% legit. should i accept her friend request? if so should i message her and if yes what should i say to open? please voice your opinions on my options for just getting to f**h ker or to try to make her my gf. btw its a bit difficult for me to build rapport with girls ive never even seen or talked to before so please give me some tips. also she's a high 5/10 low 6/10
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
random girl added me on fb
- Thread starter gsj23421
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
There's just so much wrong with your post, I don't know where to begin
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
everything is wrong with this thread. everything.
that first thing(adding you) is probably an IOI unless she's one of those people who just adds everyone and all of their immediate families(there is no one in the world who knows 500+ people let alone has 500+ friends.)
the next two are like putting the game of life on very easy mode because younger girls are much easier to get and less attractive girls are easier to get, so we have life moving from normal to very easy/casual mode.
and finally, I'm going to paraphrase the great roosh here, if you need to ask for help to get a girl you've already lost her.
basically, even if we did give you the amount/level of help you want/need/desire(we wouldn't/couldn't because you need so much) and it worked(it probably wouldn't, it would probably all be so alien to you that you'd mess it all up, but that's what anyone would do when they receive a lot of advice all at once.) then she wouldn't like you, she'd like us and you'd need to post a thread here every week asking for help or you'd be yourself and lose her(if yourself wasn't what got her, yourself isn't what'll keep her)
so, what you're telling me is a girl ADDS YOU on facebook, ISN'T that attractive and is A GRADE LOWER than you and YOU'RE worried about getting her? are you kidding me?gsj23421 said:
that first thing(adding you) is probably an IOI unless she's one of those people who just adds everyone and all of their immediate families(there is no one in the world who knows 500+ people let alone has 500+ friends.)
the next two are like putting the game of life on very easy mode because younger girls are much easier to get and less attractive girls are easier to get, so we have life moving from normal to very easy/casual mode.
and finally, I'm going to paraphrase the great roosh here, if you need to ask for help to get a girl you've already lost her.
basically, even if we did give you the amount/level of help you want/need/desire(we wouldn't/couldn't because you need so much) and it worked(it probably wouldn't, it would probably all be so alien to you that you'd mess it all up, but that's what anyone would do when they receive a lot of advice all at once.) then she wouldn't like you, she'd like us and you'd need to post a thread here every week asking for help or you'd be yourself and lose her(if yourself wasn't what got her, yourself isn't what'll keep her)
...I'd be so done right now if I hadn't already invested so much effort into this post.gsj23421 said:
not surprised, she might've added you accidentally, or you could've displayed the personality you've shown here, *shudder*gsj23421 said:
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I cannot stress this anymore for you. Read them with an open mind brotha.
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Bradd's Master DJ Guide:
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DJ Bible:
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