a random girl added me on facebook. we have 28 mutual friends and she's a grade younger than me. (im a junior btw). she goes to the school i used to go to but i dont know who she is. i never seen or spoken to her but her profile looks 100% legit. should i accept her friend request? if so should i message her and if yes what should i say to open? please voice your opinions on my options for just getting to f**h ker or to try to make her my gf. btw its a bit difficult for me to build rapport with girls ive never even seen or talked to before so please give me some tips. also she's a high 5/10 low 6/10
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
random girl added me on fb
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DanZy
Master Don Juan
There's just so much wrong with your post, I don't know where to begin
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
everything is wrong with this thread. everything.
that first thing(adding you) is probably an IOI unless she's one of those people who just adds everyone and all of their immediate families(there is no one in the world who knows 500+ people let alone has 500+ friends.)
the next two are like putting the game of life on very easy mode because younger girls are much easier to get and less attractive girls are easier to get, so we have life moving from normal to very easy/casual mode.
and finally, I'm going to paraphrase the great roosh here, if you need to ask for help to get a girl you've already lost her.
basically, even if we did give you the amount/level of help you want/need/desire(we wouldn't/couldn't because you need so much) and it worked(it probably wouldn't, it would probably all be so alien to you that you'd mess it all up, but that's what anyone would do when they receive a lot of advice all at once.) then she wouldn't like you, she'd like us and you'd need to post a thread here every week asking for help or you'd be yourself and lose her(if yourself wasn't what got her, yourself isn't what'll keep her)
so, what you're telling me is a girl ADDS YOU on facebook, ISN'T that attractive and is A GRADE LOWER than you and YOU'RE worried about getting her? are you kidding me?gsj23421 said:
that first thing(adding you) is probably an IOI unless she's one of those people who just adds everyone and all of their immediate families(there is no one in the world who knows 500+ people let alone has 500+ friends.)
the next two are like putting the game of life on very easy mode because younger girls are much easier to get and less attractive girls are easier to get, so we have life moving from normal to very easy/casual mode.
and finally, I'm going to paraphrase the great roosh here, if you need to ask for help to get a girl you've already lost her.
basically, even if we did give you the amount/level of help you want/need/desire(we wouldn't/couldn't because you need so much) and it worked(it probably wouldn't, it would probably all be so alien to you that you'd mess it all up, but that's what anyone would do when they receive a lot of advice all at once.) then she wouldn't like you, she'd like us and you'd need to post a thread here every week asking for help or you'd be yourself and lose her(if yourself wasn't what got her, yourself isn't what'll keep her)
...I'd be so done right now if I hadn't already invested so much effort into this post.gsj23421 said:
not surprised, she might've added you accidentally, or you could've displayed the personality you've shown here, *shudder*gsj23421 said:
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I cannot stress this anymore for you. Read them with an open mind brotha.
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Bradd's Master DJ Guide:
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DJ Bible:
http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/