"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mastering sub communication.

When you see a dyck, you instantly know she's homo.
When you see a gay dude, you know.
Most times without even interacting with them.
At first glance, you pick up on it without having to ask them.

Just the same way when people see you, they should know you're confident.
Your look, your attitude, your words should ooze confidence.

You should have the "I can fcuk some sheet up" look.
Your height doesn't really matter, think Lil Wayne. Think Mayweather. Think Eminem.

It'd be good for you to sometimes practice adventurous things like jumping out of a plane.
So it's not just an act.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When you walk into a room, people should know "a man is here".
People pick up on sub communication.
If you're not sub communicating confidence, then you're sub comm'n something else.

Laugh loud.
Not obnoxiously but the person next to you should know you laughed.

Declaring your presence without saying a word.


If you have to applaud, clap loud and strong.
Like you're spanking a girl. Sub communicates sexual dominance.

When you walk into a room, do not look around like you're lost or trying to be recognized.
Know where you're going, focus and head there.

Walk up right.

Walk slow.
 

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Talk loud and slow. You shouldn't have to repeat yourself.
Only talk when there's a listener.
Stop talking when the person zones out or stops listening (turns to someone else or answers a call)
Talk less.

Wipe that grin off your face.
If there's something funny, laugh.
If there's nothing funny, have your poker face on. Unreadable.
This should always be your default look.
Don't wear your emotions on your face.

Practice in front of the mirror, till you get your stance and facial expression right.

When you meet people, shake their hands, firmly, always.

Men would automatically be drawn to you.

Try it, when you're at your center. Go stand somewhere alone and see how people are sub consciously drawn to where you are.
 

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I just have this natural face that makes it look like I'm mad or in a bad mood.
The goal for default facial expression is emotionless.

People cannot tell if you're happy or sad, winning or losing. You just are. Think Sport Coaches. Think Quarterbacks.

It helps when I remember to relax my facial muscles.

Smiling require muscles, frown require facial strain so relaxing the muscles put you exactly where you want. Sometimes smirk.
 

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If a girl accepts your offer of a sambuca on a date then she is down to fcuk.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have.

Black panties can also mean 'time of the month'.
I understand that you don't want to be wrong, but it's not a random fact that women wear black panties because they're on their period. Maybe no woman has ever had sex with you that was planning on it.
 

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Value:

When people want to believe some (good) things about you, don't stop them.

"I bet he's confident"
"I bet he's good in the sack"
"I bet he's good with the ladies"
"I bet he's got money"

When people recognize a high value of you, even if it's not necessarily true of you, don't refute it, enjoy it.

The inexperienced make the mistake of arguing, correcting, denying a proposed assumption of higher value.

Your response should be humble, neither approving or refusing the fact.
 

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For your own good, get a girl undressed and horny and don't make love to her.

For your own good, get a girl's phone number and never hit her up.

For your own good, make plans with a girl and cancel last minute.

For your own good, chat a girl up and don't exchange contact info.

For your own good, delete a random girl's phone number from your phone.
 

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Drink like a man:
When you drink, do not hold the liquid in your mouth.
It should go from the container down your throat.
That way, you can carry a conversation immediately.
That way, if someone says something funny, you can laugh without spilling out the drink in your mouth.
Don't have your mouth filled with your cheeks poking out.
Don't hold drink in your mouth like a child.


Everyone has a plan till they meet an alpha.
Then the Alpha's plan becomes their plan.
Be the Alpha.
 

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Big girls swallow (as a general rule).
If you get them naked and they say 'can you just hold me?' they don't mean it.
Catholic girls are often dirty horny sluts.
Never ask, "did I hurt you?" It either makes you sound like a ***** or an arrogant tool.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bar phone numbers are mostly useless. If you don't fvck them the night you meet them, you probably won't see them again.
 

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I like this.

Please provide us with specific strategies to execute such things.
In my experience, the #1 way to cause a woman emotional fluctuation is to let her see (in a way that seems, or is, accidental) other women giving you any kind of attention, as long as it's combined with not being a simp. How convenient that girls seeing other girls giving you attention is also the easiest way to get more girls in the first place.
 

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Everyone talks.
Only the disciplined learn when not to talk.
Be disciplined. Learn to shut up.


Alpha takes care of the people who look up to him. Not necessarily financial but alpha makes sure everything runs smooth.
Alpha anticipates the future and what would be needed so Alpha make arrangements for its delivery before the simple folks realize its importance.
When people have to be somewhere on time, Alpha helps them make it possible.

Make people reliant on you.

If you do not take care of those who look up to you,
they will become self sufficient, no longer revering respect and fear towards you but commonality and disgust.
The simple do not forgive an alpha who makes them have to think for themselves.
Be the oracle everyone comes to for knowledge, for approval, for acceptance.

A woman loses respect for the man when she has to do everything she wishes the man does to her and for her.

Take care of her and make her work for you not for herself.
 

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Big girls swallow (as a general rule).
If you get them naked and they say 'can you just hold me?' they don't mean it.
Catholic girls are often dirty horny sluts.
Never ask, "did I hurt you?" It either makes you sound like a ***** or an arrogant tool.
Agree on the big girls fact. 100%
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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In my experience, the #1 way to cause a woman emotional fluctuation is to let her see (in a way that seems, or is, accidental) other women giving you any kind of attention, as long as it's combined with not being a simp. How convenient that girls seeing other girls giving you attention is also the easiest way to get more girls in the first place.
This 1000%. I used this technique a few years back and it worked like a charm. She hit my phone up that very night that she saw me. She couldn't stand it.
 

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This 1000%. I used this technique a few years back and it worked like a charm. She hit my phone up that very night that she saw me. She couldn't stand it.
Someone with experience about it should write a thread about setting these kinds of situations up on a re-occurring, permanent basis so you can manage your plate(s) with it, because being around women who give you attention really is the "cheat code" to game.

Why don't you tell us that particular story to begin with.
 

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Not much of a story. I just had this woman who was treating me like her lowest priority and I went out with some friends and hung out with some hot girls that we knew and had been hanging with before this, on occasion, and I played it up to make it look even more like these women were into me. They truly were, so that made it easier, but I made sure to go extra kino with them when directly in her line of sight and demonstrably having a great time.
 

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If she can't miss you, she'll leave you.
If she gets fcuked while missing you, the emotions can redirect to the new man.


To keep a woman with you for a long time (married):
Work her emotions
Work her punani


A woman's promise is only in present tense.
Not past tense. Not future tense. But present tense.

I will love you always - means as of this moment, I have loving emotions toward you.

I won't have ever done that - means at the time it happened, I wasn't at a place to do it.
* This has nothing to do w the present or future.


Nothing is ever guaranteed with women.
 

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If she's a Queen, then you are the King not the servant.
Treat her accordingly. Do not look up to her.

No matter how "in love" you are, she's replaceable, never forget.

Kings do not kneel for their Queens.

When you eventually propose, you do not have to kneel to propose.
Disney portrays it, society expects it but kneeling, in no way maintains or increases a man's value.
This is not a hard rule.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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