"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ItsFate451

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This girl that I met online contacted me today telling me she’s in town in wants to hangout. The only problem is her best guy friend is with her and she refuses to leave him. I told her no offense to your friend but I want to hangout with you only. How can I flirt with you if your friends in the way?

She gets annoyed and tells me why do we always have to hangout alone? He’s my friend I cant just leave him. So I tell her no worries hit me up whenever you want to hang out one on one.

I’ve been getting angry texts from her saying I’m rude and what’s my problem. Was I being rude? Honestly I feel like friends get in the way and it keeps me from connecting with her more.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spaz

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Dump her ASAP.

She's not really interested in you, 100% sure of it.

If she was, she'd want to be with you all alone without anyone around.
 
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