Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ItsFate451

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This girl that I met online contacted me today telling me she’s in town in wants to hangout. The only problem is her best guy friend is with her and she refuses to leave him. I told her no offense to your friend but I want to hangout with you only. How can I flirt with you if your friends in the way?

She gets annoyed and tells me why do we always have to hangout alone? He’s my friend I cant just leave him. So I tell her no worries hit me up whenever you want to hang out one on one.

I’ve been getting angry texts from her saying I’m rude and what’s my problem. Was I being rude? Honestly I feel like friends get in the way and it keeps me from connecting with her more.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Spaz

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Dump her ASAP.

She's not really interested in you, 100% sure of it.

If she was, she'd want to be with you all alone without anyone around.
 
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