Hey gentlemen,
I've been seeing a new plate for a few days now. Typically, I'll give a woman 2 red flags before blowing her off permanently.
The first red flag was her blowing up on me (10 minutes of raging/venting). I said something that pissed her off and she started having a tantrum. Having grown up with emotionally volatile women, I can typically handle them very well, and they don't throw me off like they would most men. I basically just told her if she wants to talk, she needs to behave like an adult, and I finished my drink and watched the game. I essentially calmed her down, and let her spill her guts/cry about what it was that had her so pissed (things that had nothing to do with me).
I distanced myself for a few days, and I didn't respond to her texts after this happened. I found it funny how prior to this event she never sent any texts. I just assumed she was the hard to get type, and since her responses were always positive when I contacted her, it wasn't a big deal.
Last night we met up again, and things seemed relatively fine. Some sexual escalation and decent conversation. Then she starts in again with a few random *****y remarks clearly aimed at pissing me off. I didn't respond defensively. In fact, I didn't even call her on it. I basically just laughed it off and didn't pay much attention to it.
We're all used to the standard sh!t tests from women we initially contact. We handle them skillfully and treat the b!tchiness as interest.
What is the best way to handle these sh!t tests that come up after the initial meetings?
There are some who would argue that remaining unshakable during a woman's emotional tizzy is the manly move (one of the 16 commandments of poon, be the oak tree). Others would argue you're a beta fool for putting up with it. Others would argue that if you don't put her in her place, she'll think you're a weak spineless tool.
I'd like to assume I handled this the right way since she tried extensively to contact me the next day.
People aren't perfect, and every woman I'm dating or have dated has had some undesirable qualities. I've accepted that as a man in my 30's, it's probably a wise move to expect women in the same age range to have some level of baggage, so I work with it. Where do we draw the line? What is the best way to handle this woman's completely unexpected b!tchiness? Is this just straight up disrespect?
Just when you think you've got your game down, the curveball comes.
I've been seeing a new plate for a few days now. Typically, I'll give a woman 2 red flags before blowing her off permanently.
The first red flag was her blowing up on me (10 minutes of raging/venting). I said something that pissed her off and she started having a tantrum. Having grown up with emotionally volatile women, I can typically handle them very well, and they don't throw me off like they would most men. I basically just told her if she wants to talk, she needs to behave like an adult, and I finished my drink and watched the game. I essentially calmed her down, and let her spill her guts/cry about what it was that had her so pissed (things that had nothing to do with me).
I distanced myself for a few days, and I didn't respond to her texts after this happened. I found it funny how prior to this event she never sent any texts. I just assumed she was the hard to get type, and since her responses were always positive when I contacted her, it wasn't a big deal.
Last night we met up again, and things seemed relatively fine. Some sexual escalation and decent conversation. Then she starts in again with a few random *****y remarks clearly aimed at pissing me off. I didn't respond defensively. In fact, I didn't even call her on it. I basically just laughed it off and didn't pay much attention to it.
We're all used to the standard sh!t tests from women we initially contact. We handle them skillfully and treat the b!tchiness as interest.
What is the best way to handle these sh!t tests that come up after the initial meetings?
There are some who would argue that remaining unshakable during a woman's emotional tizzy is the manly move (one of the 16 commandments of poon, be the oak tree). Others would argue you're a beta fool for putting up with it. Others would argue that if you don't put her in her place, she'll think you're a weak spineless tool.
I'd like to assume I handled this the right way since she tried extensively to contact me the next day.
People aren't perfect, and every woman I'm dating or have dated has had some undesirable qualities. I've accepted that as a man in my 30's, it's probably a wise move to expect women in the same age range to have some level of baggage, so I work with it. Where do we draw the line? What is the best way to handle this woman's completely unexpected b!tchiness? Is this just straight up disrespect?
Just when you think you've got your game down, the curveball comes.
