"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ran into woman at a funeral.

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A couple months ago I attended a funeral of a relative, believe it or not I ran into a woman I once had a thing for. She was a family friend, but I never expected to see her there.. I haven't spoke to this woman in years !!! It was kind of strange at first but after sometime everything felt normal again,, kind of like we never stopped talking. Towards the end of the evening I said goodby and wished her well and never expected to ever hear from her again.

Well a couple weeks went by and I received a sympathy card in the mail from this woman.. It was actually a nice card, but the strange thing is see signed it with a love lisa ... I have to be honest I felt a little strange about it. Not that it means a thing but this woman is married and I don't even know who she is anymore.

Love ??? Just seemed like a strange way to sign the card.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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I wouldnt think too much into this one.
Sincerely or love same difference....atleast for a sympathy card
 
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I agree, on a sympathy card I wouldn't think nothing of it, especially considering the fact that she is married. She is just trying to be compassionate.
 
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If the card had her addres on it then she is trying to make contact. Otherwise why send the card two weeks after the funeral?

Write her back, thank her for the card, make some smalltalk.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Weaselpuke
A couple months ago I attended a funeral of a relative, believe it or not I ran into a woman I once had a thing for. She was a family friend, but I never expected to see her there.. I haven't spoke to this woman in years !!! It was kind of strange at first but after sometime everything felt normal again,, kind of like we never stopped talking. Towards the end of the evening I said goodby and wished her well and never expected to ever hear from her again.

Well a couple weeks went by and I received a sympathy card in the mail from this woman.. It was actually a nice card, but the strange thing is see signed it with a love lisa ... I have to be honest I felt a little strange about it. Not that it means a thing but this woman is married and I don't even know who she is anymore.

Love ??? Just seemed like a strange way to sign the card.
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I wouldn't waste time wondering about the way she signed the card. There's only one way to get your answer and there really is no way of getting around it. IT'S YOUR MOVE.

If you're interested in pursuing a relationship with this woman why not contact her, make no mention of the card, and ask her to join you for lunch, a drink, dinner, or any of a number of things.

What's the worst thing that can happen? She says thanks but no thanks? Atleast then you'll have your answer. On the other hand, if she says yes, you could be screwing her brains out by the end of the month.:D

To get your answer you'll just need to put yourself out there and take the risk.
 
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Get a life and leave married women alone!!!
 
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