"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ran into woman at a funeral.

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Weaselpuke

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A couple months ago I attended a funeral of a relative, believe it or not I ran into a woman I once had a thing for. She was a family friend, but I never expected to see her there.. I haven't spoke to this woman in years !!! It was kind of strange at first but after sometime everything felt normal again,, kind of like we never stopped talking. Towards the end of the evening I said goodby and wished her well and never expected to ever hear from her again.

Well a couple weeks went by and I received a sympathy card in the mail from this woman.. It was actually a nice card, but the strange thing is see signed it with a love lisa ... I have to be honest I felt a little strange about it. Not that it means a thing but this woman is married and I don't even know who she is anymore.

Love ??? Just seemed like a strange way to sign the card.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skel

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I wouldnt think too much into this one.
Sincerely or love same difference....atleast for a sympathy card
 
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I agree, on a sympathy card I wouldn't think nothing of it, especially considering the fact that she is married. She is just trying to be compassionate.
 
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If the card had her addres on it then she is trying to make contact. Otherwise why send the card two weeks after the funeral?

Write her back, thank her for the card, make some smalltalk.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Weaselpuke
A couple months ago I attended a funeral of a relative, believe it or not I ran into a woman I once had a thing for. She was a family friend, but I never expected to see her there.. I haven't spoke to this woman in years !!! It was kind of strange at first but after sometime everything felt normal again,, kind of like we never stopped talking. Towards the end of the evening I said goodby and wished her well and never expected to ever hear from her again.

Well a couple weeks went by and I received a sympathy card in the mail from this woman.. It was actually a nice card, but the strange thing is see signed it with a love lisa ... I have to be honest I felt a little strange about it. Not that it means a thing but this woman is married and I don't even know who she is anymore.

Love ??? Just seemed like a strange way to sign the card.
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I wouldn't waste time wondering about the way she signed the card. There's only one way to get your answer and there really is no way of getting around it. IT'S YOUR MOVE.

If you're interested in pursuing a relationship with this woman why not contact her, make no mention of the card, and ask her to join you for lunch, a drink, dinner, or any of a number of things.

What's the worst thing that can happen? She says thanks but no thanks? Atleast then you'll have your answer. On the other hand, if she says yes, you could be screwing her brains out by the end of the month.:D

To get your answer you'll just need to put yourself out there and take the risk.
 
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Get a life and leave married women alone!!!
 
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