"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ran into an old coworker, she now works at school

Maxtro

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I used to work at a drugstore a couple of years ago and I knew all the girls that worked there on an acquaintance level. Fast-forward a couple of years and all of us have left. Oddly enough when I went to my college bookstore to buy some things she was working there :crazy: I said hi to her and she remembers who I am. I kept our interaction brief because I didn't want to risk screwing anything up.

Back then she had a boyfriend so I didn't make a move on her then, but we spent many nights talking when the store was slow. I also went out on a "doubledate" (me and a chick and this girl with her boyfriend) to a club. This was over two years ago.

So what would be the best/smoothest way to set up a coffee date with her?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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:yawn: It's too simple. I want something with more fireworks.

Oh well since I'm in a lazy mood I might as well try it.

Thanks for the wake up call MoseGod.
 
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