"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ran into an old coworker, she now works at school

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I used to work at a drugstore a couple of years ago and I knew all the girls that worked there on an acquaintance level. Fast-forward a couple of years and all of us have left. Oddly enough when I went to my college bookstore to buy some things she was working there :crazy: I said hi to her and she remembers who I am. I kept our interaction brief because I didn't want to risk screwing anything up.

Back then she had a boyfriend so I didn't make a move on her then, but we spent many nights talking when the store was slow. I also went out on a "doubledate" (me and a chick and this girl with her boyfriend) to a club. This was over two years ago.

So what would be the best/smoothest way to set up a coffee date with her?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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:yawn: It's too simple. I want something with more fireworks.

Oh well since I'm in a lazy mood I might as well try it.

Thanks for the wake up call MoseGod.
 
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