Raising your voice to a woman.

[Vantagepoint34]

Don't always have to be yielding to her, get this straight. At some point or another this girl wants to be your wife in an LTR, now show her you have a backbone. The rest should take it's course from there.Look even if she leaves eventually she will come back. Especially if she's a good girl. Keep your bachelorhood and backbone when you go into things involving an LTR.

Friend of mine got in an LTR in 3 months time. She gave him the set up. Nice car. Decent housing. Only thing he owns is his bike on his father's insurance. Any day now this is going to be ugly she will eventually throw him out on the street. Man this guy is hardheaded.

Vantagepoint Out

 

[evan12]

you have always to be above the woman verbally and in action to keep her considering you upper than than her .
how to do that without going to jail , I don't have answer to this

 

[Vantagepoint34]

you have always to be above the woman verbally and in action to keep her considering you upper than than her .
how to do that without going to jail , I don't have answer to this

Seniority my friend. Women love Seniority.

 

[rhythmic]

I've had moments in LTRs where I've gotten lazy, and had a moment of beautiful clarity and thought: WTF am I doing? Becoming whipped... No. And basically a total shield comes up between me and the woman, she can't get through... Drives them crazy. For sure, they love being shown who's boss.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

Think of Cary Grant as a good way to conduct yourself. Especially Cary Grant in Philadelphia Story.

 

[goundra]

wasn't he a known homo? maybe i am thinking of Rock Hudson, tho.

 

[Vantagepoint34]

wasn't he a known homo? maybe i am thinking of Rock Hudson, tho.

Cary Grant in his film's was a first rate gentleman. Good role model for DJ's. I also believe he had a couple of wives but that was his personal life.