"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rag week, aka head week

jamescr73

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so how many of you guys' girls actually go for this during their rag? Discuss.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A woman's view about sex on the rag....YUCK!!!!!

The week before my period I'm raging horny, I'll wear your ass out. But when I'm actually having it...:nono: DON'T FREAKING TOUCH ME!:trouble: I'm crampy, my back hurts, my breasts are sore and the only thing I want you to do is put a heating pad on my tummy and make me soup.

Luckily it only last about 4-5 days and then I'm back to normal.:flowers:
 

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jamescr73 said:
so how many of you guys' girls actually go for this during their rag? Discuss.
Christ.

Don't.

Ever.

Do it!


Don't even contemplate, there will be nothing good from it.

She will probably lose some attraction for you afterwards too.
 

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My ex was normally at her horniest the week before and during her rags. We did have sex a couple of times during those times, not during the heavy part though. Its not as bad as everyone makes it out to be, she says it was some of the best sex she had.
 

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every girl is different so i hear.

my teacher says that when his sister is on her rag, she literally cannot function, has to take days off work to just lie at home on her bed.

and other women, like my mother, i don't even know when my mom is on her rag, she acts the same all the time.

sucks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kev07 said:
every girl is different so i hear.

my teacher says that when his sister is on her rag, she literally cannot function, has to take days off work to just lie at home on her bed.

and other women, like my mother, i don't even know when my mom is on her rag, she acts the same all the time.

sucks.
What the hell? Your teacher talks about his sister being on her rag to his students??

:eek:
 

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ok people, i said HEAD week. I never said anything about being a vampire. How many girls go for giving their guys BJ's during their rag. I know guys always talk about it, but how many girls actually go for it?
 

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I mean if you're in a long term relationship it should really just come with the territory. Just from what I've learned if you've been together any significant length of time and you tell her what you want you'll probably get it.

On the reverse side, it's not like she's gonna initiate anything while she's on the rag. Wouldn't make sense on her part. Do what you gotta do but I'd say not to overplay the BJ card. Basically, I don't think you'd be wrong for asking for some head, but I wouldn't do it on a daily basis either.
 

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jmm854 said:
On the reverse side, it's not like she's gonna initiate anything while she's on the rag.
this is what shocked me. She did initiate it, swallowed, the whole works. Shocked the hell out of me. Keeper! Then she told me how much trouble i was in after bj week was over. :eek: Nice. She actually called it bj week.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i have with my ex. wasnt intentional. I knew it was going to start in a day or two, I guess i started it early :crackup:. It was dark, and didnt realize i earned my wings until it was too late.
 
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