"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Rag week, aka head week
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
The week before my period I'm raging horny, I'll wear your ass out. But when I'm actually having it...:nono: DON'T FREAKING TOUCH ME!:trouble: I'm crampy, my back hurts, my breasts are sore and the only thing I want you to do is put a heating pad on my tummy and make me soup.
Luckily it only last about 4-5 days and then I'm back to normal.:flowers:
Kev07
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my teacher says that when his sister is on her rag, she literally cannot function, has to take days off work to just lie at home on her bed.
and other women, like my mother, i don't even know when my mom is on her rag, she acts the same all the time.
sucks.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
jmm854
Master Don Juan
On the reverse side, it's not like she's gonna initiate anything while she's on the rag. Wouldn't make sense on her part. Do what you gotta do but I'd say not to overplay the BJ card. Basically, I don't think you'd be wrong for asking for some head, but I wouldn't do it on a daily basis either.
this is what shocked me. She did initiate it, swallowed, the whole works. Shocked the hell out of me. Keeper! Then she told me how much trouble i was in after bj week was over.jmm854 said:
Nice. She actually called it bj week.Livinlifehard
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.