'm still a very green recovering AFC (knowing it is the first step to success) and this is going to be my first FR. In some days I'll post some older FR, but this one is kinda rare.
Before starting, I'll tell what I've decided after some introspection is my objective as a DJ in progress.
On one side, I want to grow as a MAN, want to be able to talk to anybody in any situation without fear, to make myself noted, to feel I trust can handle anything ...
On the girls side, my objective is to find the perfect woman to have a LTR, doesn't matter if It takes me a year or a month, but I want to stay true to the alphaness I want to develop, it means, no wussiness, talking to other women for the sake of it, having my own space and been a ball buster with her as it's sooooo much fun (C&F for life)
Part 1.- Prelude:
Last Week I was with a friend (DV from now on)on a disco when he met an HB8.5 (HB from now on) and talked to her for a while. While he was at it, I made some EC with her, but been the rAFC I am I was something like oh my god, she's looking here ... and all that **** that we all know, the kind we want to leave behind.
I talked to DV for a while later and told him that he MUST introduce me to HB the next time. He told me she was a girl he actually is very fond of, that she was very hard to get and some **** that shocked me as he sees almost every woman but his girlfriend (and my sister or he'll eventually die for it) as *****es. For your reference, he's a natural who has been 4 years out of the active field because of his LTR but is always talking to women and getting numbers for the shake of it (I'm learning body language from him, jejjeje)
On Thursday I went to where I'm learning salsa (been going for a whole year now) and to my amazement saw she there. I was like, it's some kind of f*king coincidence. I took my class as always, been the center of atention as I dance like a crazy mofo, and make C&F comments all the time, both to my dancing partner and to the class in general. ---> I thought she recognized from last week and that was the reason she was checking me.
Repeat with me, dancing is good for my confidence, to loose fear to exposition, to think a **** about what the others may be thinking about me and to meet women, and sosuave is good to help ME realize that I have lots of potential.
Back to were we where standing, when I was dancing, I saw her checking me from time to time and had some EC.I talked to the teacher, one of my best friends, who told me she was on the basic salsa class of Fridays, so you guess what was going to be my next move, going on Friday as co-teacher because there many people in class and he can't attend all of them at a time O
As a note, she left before the class ended, and I saw her after we started, so I have an excuse to rationalize the whole I'm not stopping the whole class and approaching her scenario and don't feel bad. LOL!!
Part 2.- Friday on Salsa
I arrived at the class after half an hour since it had started, and made some instant social value entering with a 9.9 (my sister, yes, she's such good looking, and not, I'm not even thinking of giving you guys her number!!) by talking to the owner, the bartenders (one of them who's been after my ass for so long grabbed my arm and told me that I was going too much to the gym, that kind of things really help your steem when you need it!!). The teacher stopped the class to go and greet me, and I talked to some HBs who are friends of mine there (more Social Proof!!).
After that, as they were learning some solo steps, a couple of friens of mine wanted me to dance with them (as a side note, I'm much better dancing alone that with a couple, it might be because of residual shyness ). I catched her gaze a couple of times and later proceed to the classes along with the teacher to show them other kind of dance.
After we finished, I went straight to her, made EC while approaching and had a conversation like this:
* Abe (to the whole group): Hi, are you from MY_TOWNS_NAME_HERE?
* HB: Yes, we are from there.
* Abe: You know, If I remember well I saw you talking to DV the other day in that club.
* HB: Yes, I remember you too. My friends weren't there, I went to see other friends who called me and left very soon. Are you friend of DV?
* Abe: No, I'm not.
* HB: Shocked face
* Abe: LOL
* HB: LOL (maybe a little pissed I made fun of her)
* HB: It's been a long time since I saw him last time (blah blah blah) I don't use to go to that club after working.
* Abe: Hey, I think you are follwing me!, first I see you on that club, yesterday and today here ...
* HB: what?? no, you must be following me, I was on the club on Friday before.
* Abe: no, i was earlier than you, I'm sure (In fact I was)
A friend of her starts to talk to her and it's like I'm not there, so I leave and start to say bye to my friends, the owner, bartenders ... 3 or 4 minutes later I pass by HB's side:
* Abe: I'm leaving.
* HB: I'm leaving too, you know, I start working at 24:00. I work at (pub's name here) from 24:00 to 04:00.
* HB: Hey, you can come some time.
* Abe: will you make me a discount if I go?
* HB: My boss does not let me give full drinks for free, but I can give you a couple of shoots.
* Abe: If they can be without alcohol ...
* HB: of course.
* Abe: Nice to meet you, I'll tell David I talked to you.
* HB: My name's HB.
* Abe: My name's Abe.
I said bye to her other friends and left to see DV, we were going with another friend (DrunkMan) to a badass disco of 7 floors.
It almost seemed she wanted us to leave together, I really had to leave, so ... I left
Before starting, I'll tell what I've decided after some introspection is my objective as a DJ in progress.
On one side, I want to grow as a MAN, want to be able to talk to anybody in any situation without fear, to make myself noted, to feel I trust can handle anything ...
On the girls side, my objective is to find the perfect woman to have a LTR, doesn't matter if It takes me a year or a month, but I want to stay true to the alphaness I want to develop, it means, no wussiness, talking to other women for the sake of it, having my own space and been a ball buster with her as it's sooooo much fun (C&F for life)
Part 1.- Prelude:
Last Week I was with a friend (DV from now on)on a disco when he met an HB8.5 (HB from now on) and talked to her for a while. While he was at it, I made some EC with her, but been the rAFC I am I was something like oh my god, she's looking here ... and all that **** that we all know, the kind we want to leave behind.
I talked to DV for a while later and told him that he MUST introduce me to HB the next time. He told me she was a girl he actually is very fond of, that she was very hard to get and some **** that shocked me as he sees almost every woman but his girlfriend (and my sister or he'll eventually die for it) as *****es. For your reference, he's a natural who has been 4 years out of the active field because of his LTR but is always talking to women and getting numbers for the shake of it (I'm learning body language from him, jejjeje)
On Thursday I went to where I'm learning salsa (been going for a whole year now) and to my amazement saw she there. I was like, it's some kind of f*king coincidence. I took my class as always, been the center of atention as I dance like a crazy mofo, and make C&F comments all the time, both to my dancing partner and to the class in general. ---> I thought she recognized from last week and that was the reason she was checking me.
Repeat with me, dancing is good for my confidence, to loose fear to exposition, to think a **** about what the others may be thinking about me and to meet women, and sosuave is good to help ME realize that I have lots of potential.
Back to were we where standing, when I was dancing, I saw her checking me from time to time and had some EC.I talked to the teacher, one of my best friends, who told me she was on the basic salsa class of Fridays, so you guess what was going to be my next move, going on Friday as co-teacher because there many people in class and he can't attend all of them at a time O
As a note, she left before the class ended, and I saw her after we started, so I have an excuse to rationalize the whole I'm not stopping the whole class and approaching her scenario and don't feel bad. LOL!!
Part 2.- Friday on Salsa
I arrived at the class after half an hour since it had started, and made some instant social value entering with a 9.9 (my sister, yes, she's such good looking, and not, I'm not even thinking of giving you guys her number!!) by talking to the owner, the bartenders (one of them who's been after my ass for so long grabbed my arm and told me that I was going too much to the gym, that kind of things really help your steem when you need it!!). The teacher stopped the class to go and greet me, and I talked to some HBs who are friends of mine there (more Social Proof!!).
After that, as they were learning some solo steps, a couple of friens of mine wanted me to dance with them (as a side note, I'm much better dancing alone that with a couple, it might be because of residual shyness ). I catched her gaze a couple of times and later proceed to the classes along with the teacher to show them other kind of dance.
After we finished, I went straight to her, made EC while approaching and had a conversation like this:
* Abe (to the whole group): Hi, are you from MY_TOWNS_NAME_HERE?
* HB: Yes, we are from there.
* Abe: You know, If I remember well I saw you talking to DV the other day in that club.
* HB: Yes, I remember you too. My friends weren't there, I went to see other friends who called me and left very soon. Are you friend of DV?
* Abe: No, I'm not.
* HB: Shocked face
* Abe: LOL
* HB: LOL (maybe a little pissed I made fun of her)
* HB: It's been a long time since I saw him last time (blah blah blah) I don't use to go to that club after working.
* Abe: Hey, I think you are follwing me!, first I see you on that club, yesterday and today here ...
* HB: what?? no, you must be following me, I was on the club on Friday before.
* Abe: no, i was earlier than you, I'm sure (In fact I was)
A friend of her starts to talk to her and it's like I'm not there, so I leave and start to say bye to my friends, the owner, bartenders ... 3 or 4 minutes later I pass by HB's side:
* Abe: I'm leaving.
* HB: I'm leaving too, you know, I start working at 24:00. I work at (pub's name here) from 24:00 to 04:00.
* HB: Hey, you can come some time.
* Abe: will you make me a discount if I go?
* HB: My boss does not let me give full drinks for free, but I can give you a couple of shoots.
* Abe: If they can be without alcohol ...
* HB: of course.
* Abe: Nice to meet you, I'll tell David I talked to you.
* HB: My name's HB.
* Abe: My name's Abe.
I said bye to her other friends and left to see DV, we were going with another friend (DrunkMan) to a badass disco of 7 floors.
It almost seemed she wanted us to leave together, I really had to leave, so ... I left