TheException
Master Don Juan
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Just as in any group, there are fringe elements. In recent discussions, I have noticed a form of defense which really, in the end, harms the idea of sosuave(and the manosphere as a whole).
The defense goes along the lines of "you are a tool of the feminist movement", "you shame other men!", "you defend women", etc. AKA the ManoMastur Defense. (Manosphere Masturbator)
The majority of men here do not employ this tactic....and that's a good thing. Now, while there IS IN FACT the movement of feminism influencing men(and negatively doing so), not every criticism is feminism at work. Not every man pointing out the error in your ways is "a feminist". Just because you get called "insecure" or "fearful" doesn't mean the one giving you that criticism is attending an event later that evening titled "How To Eliminate the Male Population".
The "manosphere" is a good place. It has good intentions.....but just like every movement it falls prey to those people who become so blinded, either by rage or misinformation that they constantly spew stupid sh1t that ultimately discredits NOT ONLY THEM, but the movement as well.
There is a big difference between being "criticized" and being "shamed". Shaming has the motive of trying to force you into another action by trying to embarrass you or pressure you. Criticism is simply an opinion and often times the person giving the advice is carefree if you change or not....it's your loss in their eyes.
If you can't handle the opinion of another and take offense every time someone calls you out on something.....do yourself a favor and go find your nutsack. Start acting like a man. Quit whining, crying , and complaining when someone is not nice to you or calls you names. It would be quite an amazement to see some of you radicals in the workplace. I guarantee you are completely different and don't call your boss a feminist each time your work is critiqued.
Continue to hide behind your computer screens.......better yet.....vanish into the sunset and leave the sosuave movement with the credibility it deserves.
The defense goes along the lines of "you are a tool of the feminist movement", "you shame other men!", "you defend women", etc. AKA the ManoMastur Defense. (Manosphere Masturbator)
The majority of men here do not employ this tactic....and that's a good thing. Now, while there IS IN FACT the movement of feminism influencing men(and negatively doing so), not every criticism is feminism at work. Not every man pointing out the error in your ways is "a feminist". Just because you get called "insecure" or "fearful" doesn't mean the one giving you that criticism is attending an event later that evening titled "How To Eliminate the Male Population".
The "manosphere" is a good place. It has good intentions.....but just like every movement it falls prey to those people who become so blinded, either by rage or misinformation that they constantly spew stupid sh1t that ultimately discredits NOT ONLY THEM, but the movement as well.
There is a big difference between being "criticized" and being "shamed". Shaming has the motive of trying to force you into another action by trying to embarrass you or pressure you. Criticism is simply an opinion and often times the person giving the advice is carefree if you change or not....it's your loss in their eyes.
If you can't handle the opinion of another and take offense every time someone calls you out on something.....do yourself a favor and go find your nutsack. Start acting like a man. Quit whining, crying , and complaining when someone is not nice to you or calls you names. It would be quite an amazement to see some of you radicals in the workplace. I guarantee you are completely different and don't call your boss a feminist each time your work is critiqued.
Continue to hide behind your computer screens.......better yet.....vanish into the sunset and leave the sosuave movement with the credibility it deserves.