"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Race doesn't matter when gaming.

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To anyone who says race matters when gaming a chick, that's BS. What I'm saying here is, gaming white chicks is the same as gaming black ones. You will get the same responses from girls of either race. At the end of the day, females are females no matter where they're from, whatever their social status is or what the color of their skin is. I use to think black chicks were HARDER to game than white chicks, but after going up to a few sets of black chicks, I realized it's the same. If anything, some black chicks might give more sh*t test than white chicks at first, but in the end it's all the same. Getting a white girl is the same as getting an Asian girl or a black girl. In the end, race does not change game in anyway.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Am I the only one who thought of video games when you said 'race doesn't matter when gaming' ? xD
 

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race doesn't matter when gaming. it only matters if the girl is choosing. some girls of different races will not choose males outside their race. Some will. it's just a fact.
 

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SmellyOrc said:
Am I the only one who thought of video games when you said 'race doesn't matter when gaming' ? xD
Given the OP's posting history, I actually thought this thread would be another FR at a track meet.
 

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not true, once I opened a set at a club and before I could even talk beyond "hey what's up " one of the girls said "sorry, we are not interested in black guys" and the others nodded and laughed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nando said:
not true, once I opened a set at a club and before I could even talk beyond "hey what's up " one of the girls said "sorry, we are not interested in black guys" and the others nodded and laughed.
That's called a sh*t test and you clearly failed it. It's just like everytime a girl says she has a boyfriend, that doesn't mean it's true, but she's sh*t testing you. This is how woman can tell the guys who know it and the guys who don't. I mean just think about it, would a secure, confident man give a damn about her boyfriend or even react to it? Probably not.
 

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ElStud said:
That's called a sh*t test and you clearly failed it. It's just like everytime a girl says she has a boyfriend, that doesn't mean it's true, but she's sh*t testing you. This is how woman can tell the guys who know it and the guys who don't. I mean just think about it, would a secure, confident man give a damn about her boyfriend or even react to it? Probably not.
but as a black man who has been called the n-word before by females, I didn't want to find out whether she was testing me, or actually just does not like black people (which is sometimes the genuine case).
 

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nando said:
not true, once I opened a set at a club and before I could even talk beyond "hey what's up " one of the girls said "sorry, we are not interested in black guys" and the others nodded and laughed.

happened to me as well mate and im white, Therl always be a decent portion of girls that only want a certain race, thats why threads like this saying it doesnt matter are pointless. Experienced guys that have gone up2 enough girls will know and not bother to even post.

At the end of the day it shouldnt bother us theres billions of people in the world we can all get what we want within reason.
 

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It plays a factor, but I wouldn't let that bother me. How you know she isn't attracted to you because of your race or because she just doesn't like you??? More importantly, who cares? It's their loss anyways.

Some times it makes things easier and sometimes it makes things harder.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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