"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Race doesn't matter when gaming.

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To anyone who says race matters when gaming a chick, that's BS. What I'm saying here is, gaming white chicks is the same as gaming black ones. You will get the same responses from girls of either race. At the end of the day, females are females no matter where they're from, whatever their social status is or what the color of their skin is. I use to think black chicks were HARDER to game than white chicks, but after going up to a few sets of black chicks, I realized it's the same. If anything, some black chicks might give more sh*t test than white chicks at first, but in the end it's all the same. Getting a white girl is the same as getting an Asian girl or a black girl. In the end, race does not change game in anyway.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Am I the only one who thought of video games when you said 'race doesn't matter when gaming' ? xD
 

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race doesn't matter when gaming. it only matters if the girl is choosing. some girls of different races will not choose males outside their race. Some will. it's just a fact.
 

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SmellyOrc said:
Am I the only one who thought of video games when you said 'race doesn't matter when gaming' ? xD
Given the OP's posting history, I actually thought this thread would be another FR at a track meet.
 

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not true, once I opened a set at a club and before I could even talk beyond "hey what's up " one of the girls said "sorry, we are not interested in black guys" and the others nodded and laughed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nando said:
not true, once I opened a set at a club and before I could even talk beyond "hey what's up " one of the girls said "sorry, we are not interested in black guys" and the others nodded and laughed.
That's called a sh*t test and you clearly failed it. It's just like everytime a girl says she has a boyfriend, that doesn't mean it's true, but she's sh*t testing you. This is how woman can tell the guys who know it and the guys who don't. I mean just think about it, would a secure, confident man give a damn about her boyfriend or even react to it? Probably not.
 

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ElStud said:
That's called a sh*t test and you clearly failed it. It's just like everytime a girl says she has a boyfriend, that doesn't mean it's true, but she's sh*t testing you. This is how woman can tell the guys who know it and the guys who don't. I mean just think about it, would a secure, confident man give a damn about her boyfriend or even react to it? Probably not.
but as a black man who has been called the n-word before by females, I didn't want to find out whether she was testing me, or actually just does not like black people (which is sometimes the genuine case).
 

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nando said:
not true, once I opened a set at a club and before I could even talk beyond "hey what's up " one of the girls said "sorry, we are not interested in black guys" and the others nodded and laughed.

happened to me as well mate and im white, Therl always be a decent portion of girls that only want a certain race, thats why threads like this saying it doesnt matter are pointless. Experienced guys that have gone up2 enough girls will know and not bother to even post.

At the end of the day it shouldnt bother us theres billions of people in the world we can all get what we want within reason.
 

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It plays a factor, but I wouldn't let that bother me. How you know she isn't attracted to you because of your race or because she just doesn't like you??? More importantly, who cares? It's their loss anyways.

Some times it makes things easier and sometimes it makes things harder.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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