"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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r U a high quality, "hot" man? if not

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then wtf makes you think that you deserve, or will get, a high quality, hot girl? and wtf would men who CAN do so tell you betas "how" to do it? :) as if "knowing how" makes it feasible for you to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bmp2cpm

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A man's quality generally goes up with time as he earns more with experience. The type of woman he couldn't get in his 20's he can get in his 30's or 40's. Your theory doesn't seem to take this into account. Just saying.
 

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Guys I ve had high quality women in my AFC days and of course fvcked it up. I m an average bloke. This alpha beta thing applies as a % not in every case. And let's face it most guys here will work a regular job get a little less AFC wife up a 7 and know how to keep her. On average is that a bad result?
 

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A guy who's high quality is someone who's reached a point where he doesn't really care what others think and is mentally sound with who he is. This is a feeling that is very Zen-like, haha, it comes from having your life in check and knowing that you're good for any woman who is wise enough to give you her time. All of this alpha/beta crap doesn't matter...a truely successful and happy man just lives his life as he needs to in happiness and in good health. Being high quality is having unflappable levels of faith in yourself and who you are, and also with the direction that you are headed as far as the future is concerned. It's knowing and understanding what you're doing, plus being able to handle whatever the outcome is.

People are people...you're going to get rejected and have successes when it comes to flirting and dating, with a lot of it honestly being completely random or not even having to necessarily do with you. As long as you're enjoying it all and laughing along the way, then hey...that's some good stuff to be experiencing. I mean really...if you can approach a woman to talk while thinking "I have every right to be doing this because I'm what most women would love to have. It's her bad decision if she brushes me off" then yeah, that's about as good as you can get.
 
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