"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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r U a high quality, "hot" man? if not

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then wtf makes you think that you deserve, or will get, a high quality, hot girl? and wtf would men who CAN do so tell you betas "how" to do it? :) as if "knowing how" makes it feasible for you to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bmp2cpm

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A man's quality generally goes up with time as he earns more with experience. The type of woman he couldn't get in his 20's he can get in his 30's or 40's. Your theory doesn't seem to take this into account. Just saying.
 

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Guys I ve had high quality women in my AFC days and of course fvcked it up. I m an average bloke. This alpha beta thing applies as a % not in every case. And let's face it most guys here will work a regular job get a little less AFC wife up a 7 and know how to keep her. On average is that a bad result?
 

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A guy who's high quality is someone who's reached a point where he doesn't really care what others think and is mentally sound with who he is. This is a feeling that is very Zen-like, haha, it comes from having your life in check and knowing that you're good for any woman who is wise enough to give you her time. All of this alpha/beta crap doesn't matter...a truely successful and happy man just lives his life as he needs to in happiness and in good health. Being high quality is having unflappable levels of faith in yourself and who you are, and also with the direction that you are headed as far as the future is concerned. It's knowing and understanding what you're doing, plus being able to handle whatever the outcome is.

People are people...you're going to get rejected and have successes when it comes to flirting and dating, with a lot of it honestly being completely random or not even having to necessarily do with you. As long as you're enjoying it all and laughing along the way, then hey...that's some good stuff to be experiencing. I mean really...if you can approach a woman to talk while thinking "I have every right to be doing this because I'm what most women would love to have. It's her bad decision if she brushes me off" then yeah, that's about as good as you can get.
 
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