"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Buddha_Mind

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I've noticed some member signatures on this forum that cite small bits of wisdom other SoSuave Members have contributed; some of these I've wished I had paid a bit more attention to at times...:whistle:

However, I thought this thread might be a nice place to aggregate some of those useful gems that may help us think clearly in times of frustration, doubt, fear, oneitis-love, whatever it may be. Staying motivated and working in the right direction is a challenge in any endeavor of improvement. We all deserve women in our lives, and in ways that do not demean or take from us, but work for us. We've all likely suffered in our own ways, and I believe we all deserve success.

Here are just a few that stood out recently in my mind, and please feel free to add to this thread [that is the point] -- big truths can often come in small words:

5string said:
Feel fortunate that all she got were your sunglasses. She could have taken your manhood, self esteem and sanity.
jophil28 said:
Choose your woman wisely, for a good one only makes up at most 30% of your happiness, while a bad one would be 99% of your misery.
Rollo Tomassi said:
Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dear Bhudda Mind,
In every Craft,interest or calling there are Process People....Those who study and Philosophise on the whys and wherefores,who get all the Books and Tools,but never produce any solid results.... and then there are product People....Those who just get on and do the Job....rarely are the two characteristics found in one person.
 
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