"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quote that changed my life..

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ps.. good read.

I don’t know bout yall.. but I think there’s an awful lot of SPECIFICS of situations on this site.. as many others have said.. As well.. i recently stumbled upon two articles which i think EVERYONE IN THIS SITE should read.
I think a lot of questions in these forums are from a source of inner insecurity and the like...

Words like "****block," and other such terms are but only rationalizing mechanizms in the mind to make us un-depressed.. psych. 101 teaches that.. so stop making excuses for not doing what your dreams are..

My two cents are these two articles on Confidence and respect : which i think would do donjuanland much good.. incorporate some of this before youre worried next time why (fill in blank) isnt what it used to be.

http://www.askmen.com/fashion/body_and_mind/29_better_living.html

http://www.askmen.com/money/mafioso_60/95_mafia.html


If reading anything here, From the self esteem essay, this is a snippet i think all yoall should put on the ceiling above youre bed at night as i have; it shaped the way i look at day to day activity, along with getting me 2 girls the last 2 days:

I once heard an awesome man say an awesome thing:

"...to be and to become..." -- Dr. Vartan Gregorian, President of the Carnegie Association, New York City.

These five words mean a lot to me because whenever I feel like my self-esteem is hitting rock bottom, I tell myself that I am who I am, and that I will become something more. I give these words to you; live by them and you'll achieve anything you wish.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mr. Mafioso. I like this stuff.
 

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ah yeah..

there was a discussion a while ago bout 'how to be the alpha male' goes along the same lines.. so i threw it in

that sites got some good stuff every now and then
 

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I gotta give credit to Askmen.com for getting me started on the road to becoming more successful with women.
 
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