"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Quote that changed my life..

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ps.. good read.

I don’t know bout yall.. but I think there’s an awful lot of SPECIFICS of situations on this site.. as many others have said.. As well.. i recently stumbled upon two articles which i think EVERYONE IN THIS SITE should read.
I think a lot of questions in these forums are from a source of inner insecurity and the like...

Words like "****block," and other such terms are but only rationalizing mechanizms in the mind to make us un-depressed.. psych. 101 teaches that.. so stop making excuses for not doing what your dreams are..

My two cents are these two articles on Confidence and respect : which i think would do donjuanland much good.. incorporate some of this before youre worried next time why (fill in blank) isnt what it used to be.

http://www.askmen.com/fashion/body_and_mind/29_better_living.html

http://www.askmen.com/money/mafioso_60/95_mafia.html


If reading anything here, From the self esteem essay, this is a snippet i think all yoall should put on the ceiling above youre bed at night as i have; it shaped the way i look at day to day activity, along with getting me 2 girls the last 2 days:

I once heard an awesome man say an awesome thing:

"...to be and to become..." -- Dr. Vartan Gregorian, President of the Carnegie Association, New York City.

These five words mean a lot to me because whenever I feel like my self-esteem is hitting rock bottom, I tell myself that I am who I am, and that I will become something more. I give these words to you; live by them and you'll achieve anything you wish.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr. Mafioso. I like this stuff.
 

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ah yeah..

there was a discussion a while ago bout 'how to be the alpha male' goes along the same lines.. so i threw it in

that sites got some good stuff every now and then
 

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I gotta give credit to Askmen.com for getting me started on the road to becoming more successful with women.
 
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