"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Quitting Part Time Job

ryan killa

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Ok, I am about to quit my PT job, at a supermarket.

Is it practical to call up my manager, say i'm quitting, and offer to finish off my other 2 shifts for the week?

Cheers.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WesCottII

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Each company will have it's own procedures for leavers. You hand in you letter of notice, and depending on the company, you'll have to complete a certain number of shifts.

For example, in the company i work for....

You've worked there for less than a year - 1 weeks notice.
You've worked there for more than a year but less than five - 4 weeks.
You've worked there for more than 5 years - 1 week notice for every year worked.
 

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i'd go in personaly and tell him face to face. who knows one day you might want to get your g/f in there or one of your friends/family members. you wana leave on good terms....Most companis here in canada have a "2 week notice" rule (unless you work some "high importance" job, where you got to train your replacement")
 

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Write a resignation letter saying that you want to leave. Be nice about it, and say that you will consider coming back in the future.

Go into the store, see the manager and tell them why you want to leave and give them the letter, and say that you will work your weeks notice but also a couple more weeks while they're looking for someone to replace you, if needed.

Ask them for a reference too. Thats why I advocate being nice about things.
 

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Lol guys he works in a SUPERMARKET. Dude they wont even miss you. Just go in there and tell him you are putting in your 2 weeks.

Or tell him you are quitting and that you will be able to finish the weeks shifts.

no big deal.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No kidding, It's a ****ing supermarket, just stop showing up to work.....they'll get the message
 

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No kidding, It's a ****ing supermarket, just stop showing up to work.....they'll get the message

i actually did that when i was 19 years old :)
 

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Originally posted by tristan22
Thefonz:

Your comment has left me laughing my a$$ off :D
I am priceless aren't I?
 

aftershock

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Originally posted by thefonz
No kidding, It's a ****ing supermarket, just stop showing up to work.....they'll get the message
Hmm...and when he gives his work history and wants another job, whats he going to do for a reference?

Even the crappest part time jobs you can get references from. For a weeks notice it isn't worth the hassle.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unless he's going from supermarket cashier to chemical engineer I doubt that the next job would even bother to call up this refrence.....most of the part-time crappy jobs i've had the employers never cared to call up my refrences
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
No kidding, It's a ****ing supermarket, just stop showing up to work.....they'll get the message
HAHA Props to you man, funniest thing ive heard all day!



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Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
 

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If you want/need the reference and are a nice guy then finish out your schedule or put your 2 weeks notice in. If you don't really care about the job (if your boss is a d*ck) and you don't need them as a reference, then go ahead and tell them you quit and don't show up again.


And yeah, one of my friends just stopped showing up at his job once he found a better one. I told him he should've at least said he wasn't going to work anymore, but he never did. The funny thing was that they kept putting him on the schedule for several weeks after he stopped showing up.
 
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