"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quitting a sport

OlympicTim

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Hey guys so ive veen playing competive sports since I was 6 years old. Im 19 now and right now I keep reinjuring my leg for the past 4-5 years. Never severley but its get annoying. Anyways so that plus I want to etart my own business and such also I see ly friends going out every weekend but I have a game to go to or I have a game the next day and have curfew.

Im sure some of you older guys are done playing sports. Do you think ill regert quitting early (I can play till im 21 in the league im playing in) or should i just stick it out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AttackFormation

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What sport do you play?
 

marmel75

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I stopped playing sports around 25 or 26 because I kept getting nagging injuries. I miss it and still miss it, although I still have some skills left from it...I can still flip a rainbow, juggle a ball and do stepovers like a mutha...

I transitioned 15 years later to being a kicker in a football league(flag and touch) and love it.
 
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