"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi, I met this girl in a bar on monday and it is now thursday afternoon and i have still not given her a call/text/ whatever, so I think if im going to do it i need to do it soon. We did some heavy kissing etc, feeling her butt and dancing crazily, we were both quite drunk i think. The problem is that she is a friend of a friend and basically all i want to do is fvck her, im not into a relationship. Basically i wanted to pull her and have a one nioght stand, but she said that she needed to get up early the next day when i asked her to come home with me. Now the thing is, as i remember she was ok looking, but not up to my standard for a girlfriend so i dont really want a relationship, and she seemed like a real nice girl so i dont want to screw her around, so i might just not call her and if i ever see her again (as i might well do) i could just say that i lost her number (she wrote it on a napkin).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok, let me give you some more details about this situation. She is friends with some mates of mine and i would rather not 'love her and leave her' because it might piss my mates off a bit. I dont want to shiit where i eat so to speak. Secondly, .... kinda shameful i suppose, but im a bit of a Virgin. I've gotten to the point where i dont care, i will **** some average looking drunken ho, but i dont want a relationship with that ho! I kinda wanna find myself a good looking girl that I actually like that has little ties to anyone i know.

I mean I just saw one of my mates that knows her and he seemed pissed off, and I can't tell if that is because he was talking to me and he has heard about me making out with her and not calling her, or if he was just having a pissy day.

I don't think i'll fvck her...i'll keep my meat for a more satisfactory cooking pot.
 
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You will see her again out and about correct?

So wait for the next time your out partying with her and the crew.....

Then you just be up front.

Tell her that your not interested in a relationship (yadda yadda yadda).....

You'll be surprised how she reacts.
 
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Let me get this straight .. You met a girl in a bar...
AND?
WTF!
NEXT!!!
 
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