"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quiet, Shy Virgins

Vikman

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Have any you guys dated a quiet shy virgin?

I went on a date and made out with this girl. That's it and that's fine for this first date, but I found out she's a virgin. She's not waiting for marriage, it just never happened. I mean this girl is entirely pure. I don't know how to handle this situation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smack

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Well, if you honestly don't know how to handle this situation, then perhaps you should donate your testicles to some unfortunate soul who lost his in an accident or something.
 

sheep-man

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mm do it, but be sweet and only do it if ure legitly interested in her not just for a root.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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sheep-man said:
mm do it, but be sweet and only do it if ure legitly interested in her not just for a root.
Exactly. If you have real interest on her , go for it. But if you're looking just for a lay , don't do it. From my experience , i have seen that girls get so emotionally connected to you. And if you take their virginity and dump them , you will fvck them up badly.Mentally. (maybe this is just in my country , where loosing the virginity is a big deal)

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(because i put here an answer that the OP wasent asking at all. I was on the wrong thread.)
 
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