"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Quiet, Shy Virgins

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Have any you guys dated a quiet shy virgin?

I went on a date and made out with this girl. That's it and that's fine for this first date, but I found out she's a virgin. She's not waiting for marriage, it just never happened. I mean this girl is entirely pure. I don't know how to handle this situation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smack

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Well, if you honestly don't know how to handle this situation, then perhaps you should donate your testicles to some unfortunate soul who lost his in an accident or something.
 

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mm do it, but be sweet and only do it if ure legitly interested in her not just for a root.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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sheep-man said:
mm do it, but be sweet and only do it if ure legitly interested in her not just for a root.
Exactly. If you have real interest on her , go for it. But if you're looking just for a lay , don't do it. From my experience , i have seen that girls get so emotionally connected to you. And if you take their virginity and dump them , you will fvck them up badly.Mentally. (maybe this is just in my country , where loosing the virginity is a big deal)

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(because i put here an answer that the OP wasent asking at all. I was on the wrong thread.)
 
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