"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quickest Way to SUM UP What EVERY WOMEN WANTS!!

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And yes, it really is THIS simple:

Every woman just wants a cool guy who is fun, can give her emotional and sexual pleasure, and will make all of her friends jealous. PERIOD.

That one sentence sums it all up..........it really is that simple.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't agree...

Woman want guys with ambitions (aka a life)

The rest just depends on the girl in question...
 

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I think there is more variables involved, but in a nutshell yes. I agree with Credos as ambitions are very important but that could also fall into the category of being fun and/or making friends jealous. Obviously your friends wont envy you too much if your boyfriend is jobless or 28 and still living with his parents working at a circle k.

I think the most important key is here is satisfying her emotional needs, as woman solely run off of emotions. Every other category will fall under this. Anything you do or don't do will cause an emotional reaction out of her.

So to simplify this even more..

Pretty much what every girls wants: A guy who has control over her emotions as well as their own. My theory.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
And yes, it really is THIS simple:

Every woman just wants a cool guy who is fun, can give her emotional and sexual pleasure, and will make all of her friends jealous. PERIOD.

That one sentence sums it all up..........it really is that simple.
NO LETS THINK SOME MORE AND NOT GET LAID!!!!!!!!
 

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all women are different.

the only thing I think they universally have in common, is that they themselves dont know what they want.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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women dont care about ambitions. its 2010. they want a respectable guy who does what he wants. they care about your job or money lol. maybe if u want to marry them. u can either be her boyfriend who might have a decent resume and or the guys who hits that when your boring ass is working.
 

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I'm not sure why people feel the desperate need to simplify reality to such a degree that they're lumping all 3.5 billion women on the planet into one.
 

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Zarky said:
I'm not sure why people feel the desperate need to simplify reality to such a degree that they're lumping all 3.5 billion women on the planet into one.
"Make all her friends jealous"

That bit definitely applies to 3.5billion women. The OP made a thread about what women want, not what they need or what they settled for.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
Every woman just wants a cool guy
yup


Rescue Mission said:
who is fun
true... but should also be a lot more things... being just "fun" is not going to give her the range of experiences she needs to feel insane attraction...


Rescue Mission said:
can give her emotional and sexual pleasure,
Yup! On my list of what keeps women around... Both of those two would be at the top! And they're both connected!

Anyone who wants to know how to fvck a woman and give her a lot of sexual pleasure - - - start with knowing how to give her a lot of emotions and being able to mindfvck her first.



Rescue Mission said:
and will make all of her friends jealous.
This is really the only one that i disagree with.

I think it's far more important to be able to make HER jealous when you're around her friends :p
 

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You forgot to add "successful" in that sentence. That is womenese for "rich" or "well off". Otherwise, right on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When I saw this thread, I immediately remember the Canterbury Tales from my high school days. One of the tales answers the question of what women want: what women most desire is to be in charge of their husbands and lovers. Basically CONTROL.

I have yet to find anything that contradicts that.
 

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Kailex said:
Treadmill.
You wanna take this outside?:trouble:

Running outside is so much nicer. The wind or rain against your face. Also, the uneven ground is better for your tummy. Also I think it makes you work harder, it's all to easy to press the stop button on a treadmill, but outside you've still gotta bloody make it back home!
 

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Rescue Mission said:
And yes, it really is THIS simple:

Every woman just wants a cool guy who is fun, can give her emotional and sexual pleasure, and will make all of her friends jealous. PERIOD.

That one sentence sums it all up..........it really is that simple.
I agree as well,but the tricky part is how to go about displaying these attributes.

When you get right down to it,I guess that is all that women want,but to be honest,I'm a little surprised to see this coming from you.


You mentioned them wanting a "cool" guy....I agree

A guy who's fun...I agree
A guy who can give them emotional and sexual pleasure....agreed,agreed.



I'll even say that a guy making her friends jealous can make her even more interested in you.



The thing that surprised me wasn't all these qualities you mentioned,it was one that you left out...."LOOKS".



It seems like whenever someone makes a thread mentioning how they keep having problems getting girls and you reply to it,the advice you give is targeted at their appearance,and you seem pretty adamant about that.

So now that you made this thread summing up what it is that women really want,it's surprising to see that you mentioned a guy being cool,fun,and capable of providing emotional and sexual pleasure,but left the guy's looks off the list.



Like I said before,I agree with what you said,but you not saying anything pertaining to a guy's appearnce was a bit surprising.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Igetit! said:
I agree as well,but the tricky part is how to go about displaying these attributes.

When you get right down to it,I guess that is all that women want,but to be honest,I'm a little surprised to see this coming from you.


You mentioned them wanting a "cool" guy....I agree

A guy who's fun...I agree
A guy who can give them emotional and sexual pleasure....agreed,agreed.



I'll even say that a guy making her friends jealous can make her even more interested in you.



The thing that surprised me wasn't all these qualities you mentioned,it was one that you left out...."LOOKS".



It seems like whenever someone makes a thread mentioning how they keep having problems getting girls and you reply to it,the advice you give is targeted at their appearance,and you seem pretty adamant about that.

So now that you made this thread summing up what it is that women really want,it's surprising to see that you mentioned a guy being cool,fun,and capable of providing emotional and sexual pleasure,but left the guy's looks off the list.



Like I said before,I agree with what you said,but you not saying anything pertaining to a guy's appearnce was a bit surprising.
He probably left out the appearance part to prevent another debate involving Just A Shot Away.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
Also I think it makes you work harder, it's all to easy to press the stop button on a treadmill, but outside you've still gotta bloody make it back home!
Haha.....girls are so cute. I swear, where do yall get this junk from?
 

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Kirro said:
He probably left out the appearance part to prevent another debate involving Just A Shot Away.
ROTFLMAO!!!

I'm glad we saw that one coming. Falcon also said something that was left out; Money!

'Nuff said.
 

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I wish I voted that he stopped posting!
 
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Looks and Money are irrelevant in this thread, and I am posting this under the assumption that we have a normal looking guy who is making average $$ (or maybe a college student not making $$ at all). Everyone knows that the better looking or the richer you are, the easier it is to get pvssy - its a useless debate that I will save for nerds and goobers to have

The key words in my initial simple thread, are FUN, COOL, PLEASURE, JEALOUSY. I could easily write 10 pages worth of material about each of these key words...........like how to BE fun, how to BE cool, how to correctly give chicks pleasure, but it's all been written before many many times.

The best and easiest way to be more fun, more cool, ect ect........is to start THINKING less and start being an uncaring do-whatever-you-want-for-a-thrill kind of guy, and the more you act like this, the more fun you will become.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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