"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok so there is this girl I am interested in.
A while back I had really bad oneitis with her it was obsessive. I asked her out and she said no I put it down to her bf dumping her the week before it wasnt though its cos she had someone else in mind.
There is an UNBELIEVABLE amount of kino between us, like just random gropes, hugs, today I actually got under her shirt and wrote my name on her breast:nervous: and she wrote hers right above my pubic area theres other things like i stole her little revision cards and put em in my pocket..she went to get them and wouldnt take her hand out of my pocket errm we always joke around like "ya love me really" "yeaaaaaaaas"Well now Im one of her best friends and am going to the prom with her.
She has a boyfriend who lives 2 and a bit hours drive away and I found out she lost her virginity to him...im the only person shes told, she tells me a lot of things like that.So mixed signals and attitudes but i can tell u i havent got oneitis i am actually working on 3 or 4 girls at the moment.
Anyway my question...would it be totally illegal as a wannabe DJ to get further with her than just friend stuff?
P.S. the colours are just so its easier to read
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You need blue, yellow and purple to make a rainbow..

Illegal, there's no enforcement of law with Don Juaning. You make your own solutions and problems.

And, if you wanted to progress, tease her about kissing you, about how she might want to, and then do it sometime. If you kiss her, I'll tell you right now, it all changes, and probably a 99% chance she'll become confused.

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Try this:Tell her directly that your going to get her,soon not now because your taking your time but soon.Say it with confidence and full eye contact.Go enjoy yourself at prom so she'll see you having a great time with other girls.Then when she's alone isolate away from the dance floor into a more private location.Then finish her off...its obvious that she likes you.
 
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Hey guys cheers for the help
Quick update...Today some girls were screwing around and one goes "out of *gives 5 guys names then me* who would you go out with?"
She said me...now i dunno if thats just cos the others suck or what but i figured if she hated the thought of me going out with her she woulda just not answered
what dya think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're her best mate?

Move on.
 
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If you want to see if she'll go out with you, ask her.
If she says no, keep having fun with her because you're stuck in the friendzone.
 
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Looks to me like you are in the friends zone? If you make a move on her, you are risking your friendship. REMEMBER THAT.
Before you start making moves and using ****y humor on her, make sure she possibly has a thing for you. She may be acting this way around you because she feels you are comfortable to be around AS FRIENDS.
Check some threads in this forum about how to get out of the friends zone - I cannot be bothered to post all the links in view of the fact that there are SEVERAL of them. Good luck, tell us what happens... but I do not recommend you making a move on her, you might come out too strong or too sudden.
 
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Looks to me like you are in the friends zone? If you make a move on her, you are risking your friendship. REMEMBER THAT.
Before you start making moves and using ****y humor on her, make sure she possibly has a thing for you. She may be acting this way around you because she feels you are comfortable to be around AS FRIENDS.
Check some threads in this forum about how to get out of the friends zone - I cannot be bothered to post all the links in view of the fact that there are SEVERAL of them. Good luck, tell us what happens... but I do not recommend you making a move on her, you might come out too strong or too sudden.
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Agreed, your in the friends zone, don't make a move unless you get huge IOI's at prom
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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