"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Quick

R

rottweiler_273

Banned
Joined
Jan 21, 2007
Messages
72
Reaction score
0
Location
lil tiny village in England
Ok so there is this girl I am interested in.
A while back I had really bad oneitis with her it was obsessive. I asked her out and she said no I put it down to her bf dumping her the week before it wasnt though its cos she had someone else in mind.
There is an UNBELIEVABLE amount of kino between us, like just random gropes, hugs, today I actually got under her shirt and wrote my name on her breast:nervous: and she wrote hers right above my pubic area theres other things like i stole her little revision cards and put em in my pocket..she went to get them and wouldnt take her hand out of my pocket errm we always joke around like "ya love me really" "yeaaaaaaaas"Well now Im one of her best friends and am going to the prom with her.
She has a boyfriend who lives 2 and a bit hours drive away and I found out she lost her virginity to him...im the only person shes told, she tells me a lot of things like that.So mixed signals and attitudes but i can tell u i havent got oneitis i am actually working on 3 or 4 girls at the moment.
Anyway my question...would it be totally illegal as a wannabe DJ to get further with her than just friend stuff?
P.S. the colours are just so its easier to read
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

D

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
You need blue, yellow and purple to make a rainbow..

Illegal, there's no enforcement of law with Don Juaning. You make your own solutions and problems.

And, if you wanted to progress, tease her about kissing you, about how she might want to, and then do it sometime. If you kiss her, I'll tell you right now, it all changes, and probably a 99% chance she'll become confused.

Score!
 
J

Jolly_Roger

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2007
Messages
26
Reaction score
0
Location
Georgia
Try this:Tell her directly that your going to get her,soon not now because your taking your time but soon.Say it with confidence and full eye contact.Go enjoy yourself at prom so she'll see you having a great time with other girls.Then when she's alone isolate away from the dance floor into a more private location.Then finish her off...its obvious that she likes you.
 
R

rottweiler_273

Banned
Joined
Jan 21, 2007
Messages
72
Reaction score
0
Location
lil tiny village in England
Hey guys cheers for the help
Quick update...Today some girls were screwing around and one goes "out of *gives 5 guys names then me* who would you go out with?"
She said me...now i dunno if thats just cos the others suck or what but i figured if she hated the thought of me going out with her she woulda just not answered
what dya think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

W

WesCottII

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 6, 2004
Messages
1,349
Reaction score
11
Location
Nottingham
You're her best mate?

Move on.
 
G

Grand Wizzard Alamar

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 7, 2007
Messages
826
Reaction score
9
Age
34
Location
My bed, your girl.
If you want to see if she'll go out with you, ask her.
If she says no, keep having fun with her because you're stuck in the friendzone.
 
A

Axcell

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2007
Messages
519
Reaction score
6
Looks to me like you are in the friends zone? If you make a move on her, you are risking your friendship. REMEMBER THAT.
Before you start making moves and using ****y humor on her, make sure she possibly has a thing for you. She may be acting this way around you because she feels you are comfortable to be around AS FRIENDS.
Check some threads in this forum about how to get out of the friends zone - I cannot be bothered to post all the links in view of the fact that there are SEVERAL of them. Good luck, tell us what happens... but I do not recommend you making a move on her, you might come out too strong or too sudden.
 
T

Touchout

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2007
Messages
213
Reaction score
1
Sniper001 said:
Looks to me like you are in the friends zone? If you make a move on her, you are risking your friendship. REMEMBER THAT.
Before you start making moves and using ****y humor on her, make sure she possibly has a thing for you. She may be acting this way around you because she feels you are comfortable to be around AS FRIENDS.
Check some threads in this forum about how to get out of the friends zone - I cannot be bothered to post all the links in view of the fact that there are SEVERAL of them. Good luck, tell us what happens... but I do not recommend you making a move on her, you might come out too strong or too sudden.
Click to expand...
Agreed, your in the friends zone, don't make a move unless you get huge IOI's at prom
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top