"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quick Workout?

blue17

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Does doing only one set for each muscle do anything whatsoever in terms of atleast maintaining muscle/size? Last night, I was supposed to do my workout but I was very lazy and have been busy lately, so I just did a quick 5 minute workout.....doing one set for each muscle. I know that it prolly didn't do much, but is it better than nothing?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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de silva

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Technically, anything is better than nothing. But in the long run, that's not really going to do anything for you.

Sorry dude, no (sensible) short cuts in this game.
 

blue17

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ya I can agree to that....I don't plan to make this a regular event, but every month or two i am just so tired and lazy I can't possibly bring myself to workout for 30 minutes.....
 

de silva

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"Tired" is one thing, and quite legitimate.

"Lazy" is another, and not.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nightwing

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There's nothing wrong with doing one set of an exercise as long as you do it to muscular failure and you're doing enough weight to stimulate the muscle. But since you say that you were feeling lazy, you maybe didnt put the intensity into it to make the workout productive.
 
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