"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quick Warning: THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU

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Potbelly

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ok guys, here's something I did that was not too smart.

I wanted to give this girl the "gift of missing me"

ok awesome right?

WRONG i did it for too long. now she has been hanging out withthis other dudee and i come back and it's like starting from square one again.

so, if you want to give the girl the gift of missing you, don't do it over long term..like 2 damn months. because when u are out of sight, you are out of mind.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mission

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ok the idea is to have her miss you for like... a week, not two months. yikes dude.

--Mission
 
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shiningshadow

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Hah, 2 months? A bit too long there.


...I made this mistake before. -_-
 
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Yup - Got the tshirt too.

2 months? sheesh.....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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paraguayandj

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Hahahaha
 
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niggitywiggity

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looks like you thought that "absence makes the heart grow fonder," but as they say: "out of sight, out of mind"

There are limits to both. If you're gone for too long then the second one will be at play. However, if you are around all the time, reducing scarcity (and value), you become another dispensable guy.
 
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Good posts all.

Yet another shining example of how we must MAKE SURE that we are THE MAN in the eyes of the babe BEFORE circumstances come up where we have to pull an "INVISIBLE MAN" on her.

You guys are right. It's all about making sure she perceives you as a High Value guy. Hell, it's the only way they will remember our @sses.

Why? Because competition for the hottest babes is ALWAYS fierce!

That's why we've got to make an IMPACT on these chicks that they will always remember!

That's why we've got to be so UNFORGETTABLE to them that they can't help but think about us even after we're gone!

That's why we've got to leave a DJ mark on them SO DEEP that it can't be erased!







...and now you know why it's called "LEAVING A LASTING IMPRESSION."
 
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2 months...haha!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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With all of the above said, just make sure that you're making yourself unforgettable (in a good way) so that she thinks of you when you're not around.
 
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i assume that u totally didn't contact her n it was a causal relationship... i would do the push pull factor, not be seen around but let her hear you to stir her emotions up. They need this.
 
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