"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Quick Warning: THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU

Potbelly

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ok guys, here's something I did that was not too smart.

I wanted to give this girl the "gift of missing me"

ok awesome right?

WRONG i did it for too long. now she has been hanging out withthis other dudee and i come back and it's like starting from square one again.

so, if you want to give the girl the gift of missing you, don't do it over long term..like 2 damn months. because when u are out of sight, you are out of mind.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mission

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ok the idea is to have her miss you for like... a week, not two months. yikes dude.

--Mission
 

shiningshadow

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Hah, 2 months? A bit too long there.


...I made this mistake before. -_-
 

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Yup - Got the tshirt too.

2 months? sheesh.....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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paraguayandj

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Hahahaha
 

niggitywiggity

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looks like you thought that "absence makes the heart grow fonder," but as they say: "out of sight, out of mind"

There are limits to both. If you're gone for too long then the second one will be at play. However, if you are around all the time, reducing scarcity (and value), you become another dispensable guy.
 

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Good posts all.

Yet another shining example of how we must MAKE SURE that we are THE MAN in the eyes of the babe BEFORE circumstances come up where we have to pull an "INVISIBLE MAN" on her.

You guys are right. It's all about making sure she perceives you as a High Value guy. Hell, it's the only way they will remember our @sses.

Why? Because competition for the hottest babes is ALWAYS fierce!

That's why we've got to make an IMPACT on these chicks that they will always remember!

That's why we've got to be so UNFORGETTABLE to them that they can't help but think about us even after we're gone!

That's why we've got to leave a DJ mark on them SO DEEP that it can't be erased!







...and now you know why it's called "LEAVING A LASTING IMPRESSION."
 

The Truth

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2 months...haha!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LongDrinkofWater

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With all of the above said, just make sure that you're making yourself unforgettable (in a good way) so that she thinks of you when you're not around.
 
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i assume that u totally didn't contact her n it was a causal relationship... i would do the push pull factor, not be seen around but let her hear you to stir her emotions up. They need this.
 
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