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So I was out with an ex work colleague/friend after work last night drinking at some bar, I see this pretty Italian looking girl glancing at me at a table opposite.

Me and my friend go outside to smoke and shes there with two friends. I had my back to them talking away. A blonde calls out "excuse me" I turn around "can you tell us where you're from because we don't know.. you look south american or are you mixed?" I start chatting away to them, the blonde is leading the convo, I tell them lets all go back inside and dance. Now my friend was there with his gf and her work colleagues (some guy she works with was leaving) so it's basically me and 4 girls (another had appeared). I'm juggling away, trying to talk to them all, have my eye on the italian, the blonde is more forward, and actually hot (hb7.5 maybe 8 on a good day). We dance, the blonde asks if I'm on Tinder, Bumble, plenty of fish - I say I'm on them all and she says why haven't I come across you and she whips out her phone looking for me under a proximity setting on plenty of fish. She's been single for over a year. I say lets cut out the middle man and give me your number, she does. We kiss all night, can't keep our hands off each other, she feels my d*ck in the smoking area, gets it hard, then says she can see it through my jeans, I tell her to come back to mine, she feigns offence, maybe she was actually offended and says she's not the type of girl to do that, but she says no. We walk to the train station about 12am after a good 5 hours together.

Anyway, last night we agree to go out on a date tonight, which I've never done, talk about striking when the iron is hot. So I'm at home about to blitz my place on a mad clean with hopes of bringing her back to mine later (80% chance of that happening). I just wanted to share my story as I'm feeling pretty good and really happy I left my ex GF as single life, spinning plates etc is so more rewarding. My friend even said to me I don't know how you do it, always getting girls. It's all in the confidence and also having a genuinely fun nature. You need to actually be having fun and in a good zone to attract girls like that, I put minimal work into all my approaches and they just fall into place.
 

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I know that routine well. :D
Bed sheets changed, bathroom spotless, scented candles will be left on while I'm out.

Two glasses cleaned and alcohol at the ready.

Wish me luck brother.
 

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Also... tissues next to the bed, fresh towels and something comfy & clean of yours for her to wear later.

Good luck!
No tissues next to the bed...she needs to swallow every last drop.
 

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Great job dude! Keep us updated with this one!
 

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It's all in the confidence and also having a genuinely fun nature. You need to actually be having fun and in a good zone to attract girls like that, I put minimal work into all my approaches and they just fall into place.
Real stuff right here. This way, your interactions just happen. More natural this way.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I agree. But some of them dribble.
Hahaha...fair point...just grab their hair and shove their face down in it and tell them to lick it up...or if its still on their face take tour fingers or c0ck, wipe it up and stick it in their mouth.

No mercy
 

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He shoots... he fails to score.

Ok so we meet and I’m 10 min late, she’s in her car outside the venue. I jump in we kiss and say hi - defo a bonus of meeting so soon after initial meet is that the kino is easy and natural , no need to build up. We go to a restaurant and book a table (it’s full they say 15 min wait) and grab a drink from across the road.

I told her food on a first date is against my rules as it’s too personal but we agree we got to know each other a lot last night so it’s basically date 2 or 3. We chat and life family etc convo flows easily and we laugh a lot, she’s hot.

While in the restaurant we are talking about sex and basically about protection, she says she made the last guy she banged on Sunday pull out, I banged on Thursday but lie about it and say last week, she knows I’m lying. I tell her to come back to mine for another drink, she already said “I bet you’d love to pull out and come on my ass” so I’m thinkIng it’s a done deal. No.

Leave and get back to her car, she doesn’t wanna drive me home as she’s quite drunk (seriously who drives to a date ffs). She tells me she’s on her period, I say that’s cool, it makes it more sensitive and I don’t have to pull out, she laughs and agrees but still it’s a no.

We make out, I suck her titties, get my d*ck out “I’m not sucking it” *proceeds to suck it* I finger her a bit and actually feel the tampon so I know she wasn’t lying, play with the cl1t, she straddles me, more kissing. I order a cab and leave.

She said it feels like she’s known me forever, I have to agree it feels really natural with this girl and she’s hot enough that I would consider seeing her semi long term or just to pass time while I recalibrate my life.

On the upside, my house is spotless so I’ve just come home and it looks great. Downside is I’m so used to getting what I want that this just makes me feel frustrated and like I didn’t do enough to secure the bang.

Anyway, we work nearby in central London so agreed to meet mid week. I’ll ask her back to mine one last time before I completely fvck her off and NC. My problem now is that I made too much of a good impression as she said herself she likes and and doesn’t want to give it up too easily or I might lose interest and she genuinely likes me (yes she said that’s in the car). Until next time.

Her: I'm home, thank you for dinner Murkserious I had a lovely time with you x

She caught me online on whatsapp when she messaged so I felt obliged to text her straight back "me too, see you soon"

Time to load porn hub
 
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Yeah I dug deeper on the why single for so long. She said too many guys just want to fvck and they are not consistent enough. "What do you mean by consistency?" Basically guys blowing hot and cold, I took that as a sign of her not being quality enough, real quality girls don't get ghosted like this one appears to be so it was a red flag. She had been on a date last Sunday, Monday and Tuesday, so I know she's active. Couldn't detect any personality flaws, I think she goes for super alphas after a pump and dump, this immediately made me re-calibrate my intentions with her. When I say semi long term I mean literally a girl to fvck long term until summer. I would not wife up a chick that other guys have seemingly passed on.

She had an ex 1.5 years ago - on and off for 14 year (wtf does that even mean). She said she has year or two long relationships in between, the fact they don't even register mean she was defo alpha widowed by this "ex" she speaks of. I'm seeing this as an easy lay like you said, another feather in the cap or string to the bow to make life easier for the time being, plus we click and get on well, shes pretty smart and makes me laugh (main thing I look for outside appearance).
 

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Little update.

We had a little chat Sunday evening, kept it light and short. She messaged me today, I shoot her one text reply during my lunch break along the lines of "halfway through Monday". She messages back Ignore, I want to reply but I am trying to hold frame. She voicenotes me at 6pm she's finally home. I voice note her back 8pm.

She says "I can't stop thinking about kissing you" I respond saying we have good chemistry and when am I going to kiss you again (on reflection this is a bit weak and I regret it).

Her: When do you wanna kiss me again I wanna kiss you right now. We had such a crazy connection it's was so weird, like you're so funny, you make me laugh so much and you're so sexy and I just love kissing you so much.
Me: Lets meet midweek aka before Friday
Her: I think we definitely need to because... you know... we need to. I can do Tuesday like or Thursday... let me know.

I'm thinking Thursday as I have to go food shopping, buy a fresh batch of work shirts and do my 10k run tomorrow. Shall I get her out, or just straight invite her over to mine as we both know it's about sex, all pretence is gone at this point.

As an aside, just got a certified bang for Saturday come through this evening:



It's a great time to be alive lads. 1 month after splitting up with my ex, stalking her fb/insta, dreaming about her, thinking about her daily - I now have 3 viable plates and so many more to come. I just feel in a great place. I'm exercising and eating healthy, smashing work, sleeping early and getting to work early. Great time to be alive.
 

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Got drunk with her tonight, she came back to my place, smashed no Dom. I’ve prob Given her the clam! I actually like this broad! What have I done! It’s 2:15am and need to be up for work in 4 hours.

On the plus my pillows and bed smell like female, she’s so sexy french knickers juicy arse oh my Lord. She was drunk and on her period still (not sure how she can be on period last Saturday and also today, fvcked her no blood).

Anyway she wants to cut off all orbiters/dates for me. I’m ready to do the same this girl is banging and I don’t think I’m built for spinning plates it’s too much work, I’m actuallly looking for connection not bangs/notches. How do you keep up the energy to spin multiple plates?

We going out tomorrow night after work and hopefully bring her back to mine again and slam with protection... I got a 6 day course of antibiotics to finish! She’s gonna get tested, she left my place crying, just like the hb5. Why do I reduce girls to tears?
 

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What have I done!
 

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I don’t think you guys understand what’s happened....

We met last night after work, this time go back to her mums house, meet her mum, eat, then up to her room. We bang.

This morning we bang a further 3 times and I come inside her each time, she defo has chlamydia now. I am taking antibiotics and she will get tested next week, she should show positive, I’ll get tested again and show negative, she will think it’s her fault.

Anyway she’s a nice girl, blonde, gorgeous body, great boobs and ass, the most important thing is she’s super in to me.

She’s cooked bacon and eggs, it’s nearly 8pm I have just had a shower and haven’t been home since Friday. Also she wants to be exclusive after 8 days and 4 meetings, I can’t lie I’m tempted she’s hot and we have chemistry
 

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This morning we bang a further 3 times and I come inside her each time, she defo has chlamydia now. I am taking antibiotics and she will get tested next week, she should show positive, I’ll get tested again and show negative, she will think it’s her fault.
Uh, am i reading this right? You intentionally gave a girl chlamydia and intend to gaslight her into thinking it has nothing to do with you?
 

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She tells me she’s on her period, I say that’s cool, it makes it more sensitive and I don’t have to pull out, she laughs and agrees but still it’s a no.

[...] I finger her a bit and actually feel the tampon so I know she wasn’t lying, (...)
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Anyway she wants to cut off all orbiters/dates for me.
After like 2 dates/1 week? Huh. We may have solved the mystery of why guys go ghost on her: clinginess, lots of guys don't like that (generally because they only wanna smash)
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I’m still here at her place, plan to uber my escape after breakfast is served.

I’m convincing her to get the morning after pill.

Devilking you’re right, she’s clingy and way too emotionally involved already. I am a bit scared now and feel like I need a good 1-2 weeks break from her. Gorgeous girl though and the sex was on fire.

Also she said I’m the first guy she’s brought back since she moved back home after her ex 1.5 y ago
 
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Also she said I’m the first guy she’s brought back since she moved back home after her ex 1.5 y ago
If i were her I'd say that to every guy
 

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This is pretty nasty dude...you need to get your head checked out. Something a loser with nothing going for him does. Not to mention this opens you up to criminal liability since you knowiingly and willfully did this.
 
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Not trolling, just minimal self control, impulsive and have selfish/childlike tendencies. Marmel you're right and I'm not proud or pleased with my behaviour.

I'm actually going through therapy/counselling so my head is currently being checked out, thanks for the concern.
 
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