"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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quick tips against one-itis?

GrandMaster

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hey
I feel so afc today. I have this fcuking one-itis on a girl. but I should be learning for an exam real hard, but can not really concentrate.
if some one has a tip on how not to think about a girl all the time that doesnt involve going out and fcuking other *****s i'd be really really thankful.

any simple trick that could work? [desperate grandmaster]
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nishbuk

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Whenever you think about her. Slap yourself hard in the face. Then you'll feel pain.
Then whenever you think about her, you'll feel pain. Soon (prolly 1 hr...) you'll stop thinking about her.

Desperate measures, desperate times.
 

Lomi

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start fantasizing about other girls you see and/or know. it will make your male brain start to think about other chicks you want to ****.
 

Jaun_Don

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Think of finding a pair of her knickers after she has had her period...that should do it.

:crackup:
 

rapsta

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I dont really think a quick tip will help you out here =)
It's all in your mind. Reading some quick stuff wont change your mindset and feelings. Face it man =) its life. Do whatever u like. Try listening to the song "a hoe gon be a hoe" by youngbuck :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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djbr

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Quick tip?

Well, let's elaborate! I feel like writing today! :D

Have you ever seen girls talking about guys? Dude, I've seen yesterday. If you have your old AFC days love idea you'll be SCARED. It is REALLY like they're shopping!

"I was with this one dude then another one came and you know, new ones are always more exciting! But after a while it gets boring..."


Oh well, they DO consider all the options they have! Agree with me on this one!: if the only option you have is HER, you'll be on a BAD BAD position, don't you think? After all she has options! (believe, even UGs have) -- and if you don't...

What I think best summarize this problem is this:

You either go for many chicks or go for NONE! (Credit Pook, WildThang and many old posters).

Or you can use Rollo Tomassi's "spin many plates all at once" motto :D -- this guy has some gold posts that talk exactly about oneitis. Go find them! :D

What's the point of all this? You have to have options too. After all, every girl has. And if you do have too, you'll be calm to make your choices without getting desperate!
 

DonJuanMonk

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I read somewhere that if you don't have a focus in life or even an addictive hobby - you tend to fight against yourself. And in this case, it's oneitis. If you don't have anything positive going in your life, you tend to focus on something you want but you can't get.

So the solution seems to be to find a positive distraction for you. And of course one-itis is not.
 
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