"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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quick tips against one-itis?

GrandMaster

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hey
I feel so afc today. I have this fcuking one-itis on a girl. but I should be learning for an exam real hard, but can not really concentrate.
if some one has a tip on how not to think about a girl all the time that doesnt involve going out and fcuking other *****s i'd be really really thankful.

any simple trick that could work? [desperate grandmaster]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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nishbuk

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Whenever you think about her. Slap yourself hard in the face. Then you'll feel pain.
Then whenever you think about her, you'll feel pain. Soon (prolly 1 hr...) you'll stop thinking about her.

Desperate measures, desperate times.
 

Lomi

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start fantasizing about other girls you see and/or know. it will make your male brain start to think about other chicks you want to ****.
 

Jaun_Don

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Think of finding a pair of her knickers after she has had her period...that should do it.

:crackup:
 

rapsta

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I dont really think a quick tip will help you out here =)
It's all in your mind. Reading some quick stuff wont change your mindset and feelings. Face it man =) its life. Do whatever u like. Try listening to the song "a hoe gon be a hoe" by youngbuck :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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djbr

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Quick tip?

Well, let's elaborate! I feel like writing today! :D

Have you ever seen girls talking about guys? Dude, I've seen yesterday. If you have your old AFC days love idea you'll be SCARED. It is REALLY like they're shopping!

"I was with this one dude then another one came and you know, new ones are always more exciting! But after a while it gets boring..."


Oh well, they DO consider all the options they have! Agree with me on this one!: if the only option you have is HER, you'll be on a BAD BAD position, don't you think? After all she has options! (believe, even UGs have) -- and if you don't...

What I think best summarize this problem is this:

You either go for many chicks or go for NONE! (Credit Pook, WildThang and many old posters).

Or you can use Rollo Tomassi's "spin many plates all at once" motto :D -- this guy has some gold posts that talk exactly about oneitis. Go find them! :D

What's the point of all this? You have to have options too. After all, every girl has. And if you do have too, you'll be calm to make your choices without getting desperate!
 

DonJuanMonk

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I read somewhere that if you don't have a focus in life or even an addictive hobby - you tend to fight against yourself. And in this case, it's oneitis. If you don't have anything positive going in your life, you tend to focus on something you want but you can't get.

So the solution seems to be to find a positive distraction for you. And of course one-itis is not.
 
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