"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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quick tips against one-itis?

GrandMaster

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hey
I feel so afc today. I have this fcuking one-itis on a girl. but I should be learning for an exam real hard, but can not really concentrate.
if some one has a tip on how not to think about a girl all the time that doesnt involve going out and fcuking other *****s i'd be really really thankful.

any simple trick that could work? [desperate grandmaster]
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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nishbuk

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Whenever you think about her. Slap yourself hard in the face. Then you'll feel pain.
Then whenever you think about her, you'll feel pain. Soon (prolly 1 hr...) you'll stop thinking about her.

Desperate measures, desperate times.
 

Lomi

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start fantasizing about other girls you see and/or know. it will make your male brain start to think about other chicks you want to ****.
 

Jaun_Don

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Think of finding a pair of her knickers after she has had her period...that should do it.

:crackup:
 

rapsta

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I dont really think a quick tip will help you out here =)
It's all in your mind. Reading some quick stuff wont change your mindset and feelings. Face it man =) its life. Do whatever u like. Try listening to the song "a hoe gon be a hoe" by youngbuck :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djbr

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Quick tip?

Well, let's elaborate! I feel like writing today! :D

Have you ever seen girls talking about guys? Dude, I've seen yesterday. If you have your old AFC days love idea you'll be SCARED. It is REALLY like they're shopping!

"I was with this one dude then another one came and you know, new ones are always more exciting! But after a while it gets boring..."


Oh well, they DO consider all the options they have! Agree with me on this one!: if the only option you have is HER, you'll be on a BAD BAD position, don't you think? After all she has options! (believe, even UGs have) -- and if you don't...

What I think best summarize this problem is this:

You either go for many chicks or go for NONE! (Credit Pook, WildThang and many old posters).

Or you can use Rollo Tomassi's "spin many plates all at once" motto :D -- this guy has some gold posts that talk exactly about oneitis. Go find them! :D

What's the point of all this? You have to have options too. After all, every girl has. And if you do have too, you'll be calm to make your choices without getting desperate!
 

DonJuanMonk

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I read somewhere that if you don't have a focus in life or even an addictive hobby - you tend to fight against yourself. And in this case, it's oneitis. If you don't have anything positive going in your life, you tend to focus on something you want but you can't get.

So the solution seems to be to find a positive distraction for you. And of course one-itis is not.
 
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