whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
Hey all. Spring break is here, so I want you to think about this for a little. I did, and it helped me feel a bit better about myself and the likelyhood of a girl saying "yes" to me were I to approach her.
We in high school think that girls only like us if they show it alot, physically and verbally. But I was talking to this one girl about a friend of mine yesterday, and she said that she thought that "he was hella cute". Yet she never talked to him, and never really showed interest. The only class she has with him is the one I'm also in. They don't talk to eachother. But I talked with my friend today, and turns out that he likes her too, but never talked to her before.
You are probably thinking "great story WUWD, what does this have to do wth me? Why do I care what your friends are up to? Do you even have friends?". Well, this has a significant point. Most likely, you judge if girls like you or not by how they show interest. Well this story gives proof that just because a girl doesn't hit on you, does NOT mean she would say "no" if you asked her out. The girls that talk to you because they like you are about 30% of the amount that are actually attracted to. I'm attracted to a few girls, but how many of them know it? Not many.
Even when you don't think she is watching, chances are that she sneaks a glance over at you every now and then. She sees you and sees the way you act. She forms an attraction to you, mostly physical, mostly based on whether you are cute or not, and how you behave. Then she begins to have an attraction for you. Just because she doesn't talk to you doesn't mean she doesn't like you, and especially doesn't means that she will say no to you! All you have to do is ask! The point of this all is that even though she may not say anything to you, and doesn't have much value for you at the time, she does watch you and know how you are, and if you play your cards right, you will often times be surprised that she says yes! If she doesn't show signs that you're a nasty animal... then chances are you will succeed with an approach. Hopefully this tip did what it was supposed to do, and have you understand that not just the girls that talk to you will date you, nearly ALL of them will! Now get out there and mack!
~Whatsupwiddat
Here is how I came to this conclusion; there was no place to fit this into the body paragraphs so I put it here. Enjoy
I came across this solution when i was talking to Lorenzo via AIM: I was asking about my approach strategy and if he could find anything wrong with it, and he said "remember this: she likes you". He kept repeating it. Do you know why? I just figured it out. He assumed that I picked this girl because she was friendly and talked to me often times. Even if she kept quiet to me, Lorenzo was sure that if I had being playing my part as a Don Juan, that she would say yes. Her talking to me completely told him that a definite yes would come if I asked her.
We in high school think that girls only like us if they show it alot, physically and verbally. But I was talking to this one girl about a friend of mine yesterday, and she said that she thought that "he was hella cute". Yet she never talked to him, and never really showed interest. The only class she has with him is the one I'm also in. They don't talk to eachother. But I talked with my friend today, and turns out that he likes her too, but never talked to her before.
You are probably thinking "great story WUWD, what does this have to do wth me? Why do I care what your friends are up to? Do you even have friends?". Well, this has a significant point. Most likely, you judge if girls like you or not by how they show interest. Well this story gives proof that just because a girl doesn't hit on you, does NOT mean she would say "no" if you asked her out. The girls that talk to you because they like you are about 30% of the amount that are actually attracted to. I'm attracted to a few girls, but how many of them know it? Not many.
Even when you don't think she is watching, chances are that she sneaks a glance over at you every now and then. She sees you and sees the way you act. She forms an attraction to you, mostly physical, mostly based on whether you are cute or not, and how you behave. Then she begins to have an attraction for you. Just because she doesn't talk to you doesn't mean she doesn't like you, and especially doesn't means that she will say no to you! All you have to do is ask! The point of this all is that even though she may not say anything to you, and doesn't have much value for you at the time, she does watch you and know how you are, and if you play your cards right, you will often times be surprised that she says yes! If she doesn't show signs that you're a nasty animal... then chances are you will succeed with an approach. Hopefully this tip did what it was supposed to do, and have you understand that not just the girls that talk to you will date you, nearly ALL of them will! Now get out there and mack!
~Whatsupwiddat
Here is how I came to this conclusion; there was no place to fit this into the body paragraphs so I put it here. Enjoy
I came across this solution when i was talking to Lorenzo via AIM: I was asking about my approach strategy and if he could find anything wrong with it, and he said "remember this: she likes you". He kept repeating it. Do you know why? I just figured it out. He assumed that I picked this girl because she was friendly and talked to me often times. Even if she kept quiet to me, Lorenzo was sure that if I had being playing my part as a Don Juan, that she would say yes. Her talking to me completely told him that a definite yes would come if I asked her.
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