"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Quick tip to make it more playful..

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This "tip" applies for the mid-phase of a PU, during comfortbuilding and to create tension. If we have good chemistry and I have just started to make the conversation become more sexual, I ask her " On a scale from 1 to 10, how many times would you sleep with me?" The question in itself is really really stupid but it has some benefits. Whatever she answers you can bust on her. If she says any number tell her "you want me so bad" or "I knew it, you love me" (David D). You can follow up with something like "Great..now how much would you be willing to pay for it?" you get my point. Just play with her..bust on her.

If she insists on playing hard to get and says 0 or none, you can bust on her for not being able to count. "1-10 baby..I know you're blond but come on!..there's no 0 in there..Now lets try the alphabet" or " Wow, you're a pretty good liar. We'll see"


Please note that I've only field-tested this 2 times. But it definately made the whole interaction more playful both times and I had make-out sessions with both girls. No F-closes though, due to exessive drinking :p

Try it if it's your style. If not, then don't :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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haha... thats good stuff for sure. i wouldnt do it off the bat tho
 
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